What is your biggest mistake or regret?

by Shashi Ranjan I am entrepreneur

True Story

Visiting a female office colleague in odd hours.

Going anonymous for obvious reasons. This happened 3 months back. This girl joined my office just few days back in my team. She didn’t used to talk to many people just used to talk to me since she felt that I was one of the decent person she could find in office. I was on seventh cloud girl complimenting me this way. I didn’t mentioned but I had a big crush on her since I first saw in office. We started getting along together well like going for dinner, bike rides, talking all shit and what not. We were like newly born BFFs.

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One day I was watching movie late night around 2:30 am on my laptop and a message popped out of her.

She: Hey wassup?

Me: I’m good. You haven’t slept yet?

She: No I am hungry want to eat something.

Me: At this hour? Order something if there is some restaurant open at this time.

She: How can I eat alone. I don’t eat food alone. I’d rather not eat anything and stay hungry.

Me: What why do you wanna stay hungry just order and eat something.

She: No i cannot eat alone.

Me: Shall I come? Let’s eat together?

She: Yes please come. I’ll order something.

I got her address booked an Uber and reached her place at around 3 am. I was feeling wierd visiting a girl that too this late time. As I entered in first thing I said was, “Look this is wierd me coming to your house this late.”, to which she replied “ Why are you overthinking too much you are my friend you can come any time.”

We had dinner and watched a half completed movie and it was 4: 15 I think in the morning when I said I must leave. She insisted I must stay and should leave in the morning. This made me a bit uncomfortable but then I decided to stay back. We were sleeping together. And we were starting to get closer. Started holding hands, playing with hands, playing with hairs, kisses on forehead. But yeah no sex just gentle romantic cuddling.

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This incident made me uncomfortable while talking to her and facing her but eventually things started getting better with time.

Some weeks down the line I was going for tea with another of my colleague. The very next day I got a comment from her “I don’t know with how many girls you have slept with”. I got numerous comments after that day regarding my character. This is something I am not. I loved her and still love her but her comments I get regarding my character is what breaks me from the core. I probably would not have been hurt so much if I was the person she think I am but I am not that person. This is probably the biggest mistake of my life. If I visited her she feels I visit every other girl. I wish I could some how get over her feeling. She feels that we are still good friends, yes we are but I am still broken from inside after my character was questioned. I don’t think things can ever be normal.

So my biggest regret? Why did I visited her that night? Why didn’t I left after having dinner?

But since whatever happens, happens for the best. There’s something good coming after this. Atleast an experience I’ll not forget for my life.

Cheers!!