What Co-Parents Can Expect When Kids Return To School

by Rachel Radcliffe Legal Firm Perth

The kids will soon be returning to school and for separated parents, this can be a difficult time to navigate.

It’s another divorce/separation milestone which family lawyers often flag as one of the most problematic for newly separated couples.

The holidays can be a more relaxed time when the usual strict routine can be relaxed and rules don’t have to be so rigid.

When it comes to maintaining a successful co-parenting dynamic, however, it’s always best to adhere to some sort of routine and always keep the lines of communication open.

Very often, arguments arise due to lack of communication, and if the routine has been a bit haphazard and vaque over the school holidays, now is the time for parents to reinforce the agreement.

Best Child Custody Attorney in Perth agrees that families, especially recently separated ones, tend to have more successful co-parenting situations if both parties commit to the agreement already hammered out.

This means that whether it is child support payments, living arrangements and custody time allocated - these should all be consistently observed.

If one parent feels that they are the party giving more energy and effort to making the transition smooth for their children, then resentment can bubble up and very often end in an ugly row.

Once the new school year has started, it’s important to remember that you both have your child(ren)’s best interests at heart.

This new family situation is not of their making, and so you should do everything possible to maintain a ‘normal’ school life for them.

When it comes to school events, never, ever pick an argument with your co-parent, especially in front of others.

Wait for an appropriate time to share your views, and do so calmly if at all possible.

In terms of the day-to-day, it’s useful for both parents to agree how to handle matters like, homework, what sort of lunches to pack, and what sort of rewards/discipline systems to put in place, so as to achieve continuity between both homes.

Children need consistency and boundaries and if both parents are on the same page, then the child will be much happier.

If you require family law, child support or divorce law advice, contact Leach Legal today for a free 15 minute consultation.