To Have a Fun-Filled Date Night- Follow 15 Blind Date Tipsby Angela Hester Relationship Expert
Blind dates, Few things strike terror into the hearts of men
quite so much When you're going on a — whether that's you someone , a friend of a friend, or a totally blind
date. What is she going to look like? It’s normal to be
a little nervous and worry that things won't go well. Who’s to say you'll even
have an IRL connection with this total stranger? This blind date advice article is an
absolute must for the man who keeps getting set up.
1. Be sure that person knows
you and Know the person who is fixing you up
If your matchmaker knows about you, your values, likes and dislikes,
they will have a good handle on what would be an awesome blind date. About your proposed
meeting communicating with your matchmaker will go a long way towards having a
good experience. Be up front and don’t be afraid to ask for a picture or
description of your date. The more information you have in the beginning, the
better it is in the end.
Start with a phone call.
It is important to
talk to your prospective date on the phone Before going out on a blind date,
listen to her voice, ask about her background and interests, so when you go on
that first date, it’s not in the dark but it’s blind,.
Remember good hygiene.
Though it goes
without saying, it’s impossible to be objective with yourself. As a result, you
may have a hygiene problem and not know it.
Don’t do too much Googling.
As possible, you want
to see as many photos of the person you’re meeting up with and vet their
profile against the ‘truth’ of the internet. But if you dig too deep what
happens? To learn from the guy directly you might find stuff that would’ve been
nice, or you could form an even more skewed perception of who you anticipate
him to be. It’s good to do your homework, but don’t overdo it…leave some info
to be discovered organically on the date!
Safety is a critical
component to adventures what a good survivalist knows. to text a friend is a
personal suggestions where you are and even a screenshot of the person you’re
meeting up with. Another tip we heard recently was to be careful when
disclosing personal details—like your address, for example—because this is
still a stranger, and you gotta be careful out there.
Go In With a Positive Attitude
Here’s a blind
date advice for you a bit of Grade. With a negative attitude if you go
into a blind date, of course that’s going to set you up to have a negative
time. Remember that even you can still have a killer time out and about with
her if you don’t have romantic intentions toward your date — even if you never
see her again. Go into the date with a positive curiosity: even going to have
fun You want to learn more about this person, but the two of you don’t hit it
Never drink before your date and Limit alcohol intake.
Though nerves can
tempt you to take that one calming drink, override that impulse and meet your
date with clarity.
Plan an Activity That’s Fun Either Way
To have a good time
plan an activity that you enjoy, even if the two of you don’t hit it off — that
you both enjoy., ask your mutual acquaintance Before you plan the date what
type of shared activities the two of you might enjoy. before you decide where
to go Get a list of at least three things the two of you will like doing
together. Then pick the one you think has the greatest potential to be fun for
both of you, even if it ends up being the most awkward date you’ve ever been
on. And speaking of awkward…
interesting and new for both of you. From your phone conversations, you already
have a heads up about her interests, likes and dislikes.
10. Be authentic.
To be the real if you
allow yourself, then that second date will be because she likes you.
11. Be positive.
Nobody likes a
12. Don’t control.
Don’t be possessive,
and don’t manipulate. On a first date Women listen for that, and it is often
their number one red flag.
13. Set a Time Limit
A rescue ring is just
poor form. As the guy who had a friend, do you want to become known? call him
and made up then some lame excuse to bail? Even if the two of you aren’t
hitting it off, Of course not. So instead, that has a set time limit to plan an
activity. As an example let’s use miniature golf: It’s an activity, but one
that has a defined end to it. On the other hand, if you want to keep the night
going and if it’s going well the two of you can hit up the go-karts or bounce
to a bar. Remember that a set time limit doesn’t have to mean the end of your
night — but it can if you need it to.
14. Be Your Best Self, No Matter How Bad It Goes
Here’s the thing:
Even the worst date you’ve ever been on, you still want to be your best self.
In the first case, taking the high road you’re never going to regret. What’s
more, people talk about the dates they go on. Maybe she’ll say you’re lame,
Maybe she’ll say you’re boring. It does about you than that says more about
her. However, if she says about your behavior or you were rude on something
else, that’s going to reflect poorly on you. It doesn’t matter if you don’t
want to get set up on blind dates again or not. You should always be a
gentleman. Contact The Art of Charm today for additional blind date advice and
tips. As a reflection of a generous heart Women read generosity. For example,
be generous with your feelings, be open, share your story, listen to hers...
and pick up the bill.
15. Dress for success.
Put on something that
you like, you’re comfortable in, and that you don’t have to think about once
you walk out the door. You emote confidence when you feel good about yourself,
rather than insecurity and neediness.
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