Step by Step Practical Ways of Getting What You Want Out of Life

by Olufolake Stephen Adams Business/Marketing Consultant

Hi there,

Have you ever find yourself with these limiting beliefs: ‘I can’t afford this, I can’t afford that, it is too expensive, it is too costly?’

Have it at the back of your mind that you can AFFORD ALL THINGS. All you need to do is to CREATE A NEW MINDSET FOR YOURSELF
What I tell myself is 'I can afford this'. Never create a limiting belief to your dreams.
Then I program my mind to it. Work towards it and create the means to get it done and BOOM! IT HAPPENS.

It doesn't matter your financial status, always tell yourself I can afford it.

How can you afford things then? Follow this step by step example:

Let’s say you love a duplex house may be on a web. Note the word love not want.
When you love something, you will and can be patient to get it.

STEP 1

Save that house on your PC. In fact make it your PC background so you can see it every day.

STEP 2

Check the price e.g. $200,000. Don’t freak out and say ‘wow, that's too much, I can't afford that (this is exactly the limiting belief was talking about). What to do instead?
Put to it on your to do list and make a print of that house and pin it on your vision board.
You will notice an expression on your face: there will be a smile. Do you know what means? As far as your mind is concerned, you've that house.
In fact, you may kiss that house. It is as good as that. You do that, your mind has conceived and perceived the house. What remains is achieving it.

STEP 3
Find the location of that house even if the means is not in your hands yet okay? Just do it.

STEP 4
when you've located it, visit the place. Don’t worry about the means. Visit the place. Live in your dream house. What does that mean? You are living your future in the now.
Make sure you go through everywhere, ask questions. MAKE SURE THAT EVERYTHING FITS TO WHAT YOUR MIND SAW.
When you're satisfied, leave the place.
You’ll notice something: there will be an excitement in you as if you already HAVE THE HOUSE, THAT IS FAITH!

STEP 5
Go back to your drawing board and PLAN: Remember that planning is a MAP DESIGN to your destination which is the house. Make it a realistic one.
Then ask yourself: 'how many days, weeks, and years will it take me to get that house? Make it realistic. This is creating a time frame what to do next?

STEP 6

Ask yourself again, 'WHAT DO I HAVE THAT CAN SET THIS DREAM HOUSE IN MOTION?'
See I didn't use the word borrow. What do you have? It may look insignificant, all the same use it.
Remember you are working on a time frame okay? So use it. Use what you've.

STEP 7
Set up a sales funnel. Remember if you have the $200,000 already you will just buy that duplex house. So the money is not the issue, it is the time frame. You can get the money. Create the flow.
There is a pattern that money flows, connect to that flow. How?
Ideas, insightful creative ideas-value-branding-sales funnel-money. Get it? Good.

STEP 8

Now, keep the dream from pessimistic negative doubtful people that will tell you 'Are you nuts? YOU CAN'T GET THAT KIND OF A HOUSE? HOW ARE YOU GOING TO GET $200,000? Hmm. Steal it?' and you tell them 'oh am working on it'. ‘Hmm. really. How? Show me’. So you show them what you have. Remember it is insignificant. It is your mustard seed. The least of all herbs but the greatest of all
know what will happen? They will start laughing at you, mocking you and scorning YOUR SEED TO YOUR DREAM.
You must understand the POWER OF A SEED, YOU HAVE TO.
IT IS YOUR DREAM, YOUR LIFE AND NOT THEIRS. SO DON'T LET ANYONE STOP YOU FROM GETTING IT.
That is why I said don't share that dream. It is BIGGER THAN YOUR MOCKER'S MIND.
So what to do?
Work underground. Learn, search on how to grow that seed.
Give yourself time to stretch. Once in a while in your study room, just close your eyes and go back to that house in your mind, live in it, feel it. Live everything you would like there. Play it in your mind. Oh it will be so refreshing. ENJOY THE PROCESS.

STEP 9
Go back to your drawing board, you will realize fresh ideas.
Now break the plan into daily, weekly, monthly and quarterly realistic goals that will get you there .Those are your pilots. Concentrate on them and work within your time frame. Have fun.
You will realize that one day that you are living in that house.

My question, where you able to afford it in the end? I believe the answer is YES!
Now can you afford all things? Will love your answer.
This is to let you that WHATEVER YOUR MIND CAN CONCEIVE IT WILL ACHIEVE.
NEVER LIMIT YOURSELF. These processes are what I use to translate my imaginations or ideas into realities over and over again

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