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“First Love Makes You Wiser & Stronger”

by Luv S. Sr.Content & Social Media Writer

First love isn't just any love. You've given your heart and soul into it.Perhaps nothing is ever quite as painful as getting over it. Now that it's over, it taught you so many things which actually made you wiser and stronger than ever before. Here are few things which your first love teaches you.


1. Don’t expect a happy ending


Your first love taught you that love doesn’t always have a happy ending. It exists for a certain period and trust me, that’s not a bad thing. The fact that it didn’t last doesn’t mean that the feelings weren’t real.Cherish your first love, regardless of the page it ended on.


2. Discussion Matters


It’s important to talk about things, to discuss matters, to express yourself, and to communicate in a relationship. I’ve seen so many relationships didn’t work because people are too egoistic to talk, too scared to be judged or are too afraid to be themselves and it ends up hurting the ones they loved the most.


3. Not everything lasts, and that’s alright


When your heart breaks for the first time then only you realize that not everything is meant to last and it is an extremely important lesson. It teaches you that it is okay for good things to come to an end because they may give way to even better stories in the future.


4. Time heals everything


The time when your heart gets shattered, it will ache in the worst possible way. This is the time when you need to know that every broken heart has the power to heal. So, don’t worry too much because the broken heart will fall in love, again.


5. Sometimes, timing is a bitch


You should have learned that sometimes two people who might have been right for each other, never worked out because they met at the wrong time.




6. Cherish Your Memories


There are always fond memories of what your first love felt like. You should learn that memories are a great way of relieving some of the best times you had together. So, be happy for every person you have crossed paths with because they left you with some beautiful lessons and experiences that will make you a better person.


7. Trusting Blindly Is Lethal


When you are in love for the very first time, you might believe every word of what they say. You never even consider doubting them because you don’t think they will lie. However what we think doesn’t always become reality, and if your heart has been broken, you will know trust can be fragile.


8. Bad endings can still give good memories


Maybe your first love ended on a bad note and you are no longer in touch with your first flame, it doesn’t mean that there are no good memories. Even right now, when you are reading this, did you automatically think of your first love? That is exactly what I mean by bad endings but good memories. Smile, because it brought you where you are today.


9. Life goes on


Your first love teaches you that life never stops. It doesn’t matter how naive you were or even how deep your love was, it made you stronger in the end. Life kept going on, and it always will.


10. Promises break, so do people


Do you remember those long lonely wintery nights where you had no one to hug but your lonely pillow?  You must thank those nights as they made you stronger and reminded you that promises can always be broken. It helped you gain strength and learn many important lessons over time.


Love knows no barriers and restrictions, and it is something that is done with the heart and ends up feeding your soul in the most beautiful ways. Cherish it because you are lucky to have this feeling.



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About Luv S. Advanced   Sr.Content & Social Media Writer

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Joined APSense since, December 1st, 2017, From Noida, India.

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