How to Avoid Failure
I have discovered the secret so that you never have to fail again... EVER.
I have known this secret for a very long time. I discovered it by accident.
I have known this secret for a very long time. I discovered it by accident.
It is with great hesitation that I offer to
you what I have uncovered.
This information will allow you to not ever fail
again...EVER.
Just imagine going through the rest of your life
knowing
you would never fail, EVER
So first I'd like you to ask yourself....
"what would you attempt to do if you knew you couldn't fail?"
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I like that one almost as much as HHCTB?
I even have a bracelet with all those letters on it to constantly
remind me to have a vision, to always be looking ahead.. planning
you would never fail, EVER
So first I'd like you to ask yourself....
"what would you attempt to do if you knew you couldn't fail?"
WWYATDIYKYCF?
I like that one almost as much as HHCTB?
I even have a bracelet with all those letters on it to constantly
remind me to have a vision, to always be looking ahead.. planning
If you could do anything and I mean anything that
you wanted and you
knew all would work out GREAT!
What would you do?
knew all would work out GREAT!
What would you do?
Anything from personal relationships to business...
ANYTHING.
Please stop for a moment and think about that question.
Perhaps even taking the time to write it down.
This exercise may be a test of your imagination but...
Knowing it would still be OK in the end, you still hesitate.
Please stop for a moment and think about that question.
Perhaps even taking the time to write it down.
This exercise may be a test of your imagination but...
Knowing it would still be OK in the end, you still hesitate.
That has to tell you something about
yourself.
Do you not care enough?
Do you not have enough desire?
What would be the reason that you would hesitate to answer that question?
Do you not have enough desire?
What would be the reason that you would hesitate to answer that question?
Fear of Failure-Fear of Success... Could it be one
of those 2?
Both of these can be crippling.
Both of these can be crippling.
Fear of Failure
Fear is a learned behavior. Fear is not a trait you
are born with. It is
something that you acquire. Your parents scold you when you get to close
to the stairway. Oh, I may fall down.
something that you acquire. Your parents scold you when you get to close
to the stairway. Oh, I may fall down.
Stay away from the stove. Oh, I may get
burned.
Those are things that we learn in our lives
everyday since we were very small.
Fear of Success
People don't plan enough to be successful. I had a
girlfriend who became
very successful in her marketing career. But her husband told her there
was only room for 1 STAR in the family.
very successful in her marketing career. But her husband told her there
was only room for 1 STAR in the family.
She did a 180 and within a few weeks she turned in
her resignation to the
company. What was it that made her choose her husband over her career?
company. What was it that made her choose her husband over her career?
Fear of Failure or Fear of Success?
A bit of a side note... the marriage broke up after
a few years but not before
a couple of kids.
a couple of kids.
Susan Jeffers wrote the most wonderful book, "Feel
the Fear and DO it Anyway."
Fear is a learned trait.... feel the fear and do it anyway.
Fear is a learned trait.... feel the fear and do it anyway.
Worry and quilt are both useless emotions, Your
wasting your time if you dwell
on either of them.
I promised to tell you the secret of not ever failing again. I hope that by now
you have discovered what I learned about failure a long time ago.
on either of them.
I promised to tell you the secret of not ever failing again. I hope that by now
you have discovered what I learned about failure a long time ago.
I never fail... EVER. Everything that I have done
in my life has been a leaning
process. Did I mess up? YOU BETCHA. Many times. But not once did I
ever view them as failures.
So the secret that I hesitate to tell you about not ever failing again, EVER
Is to never start.... and you will never have to worry about failure again, EVER
process. Did I mess up? YOU BETCHA. Many times. But not once did I
ever view them as failures.
So the secret that I hesitate to tell you about not ever failing again, EVER
Is to never start.... and you will never have to worry about failure again, EVER
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Comments (7)
Cindy Bolley16
HHCTB?
@Nnamdi... you knew it all along.
I know you!
Cindy
Nnamdi A.17
There is Something for Everyone
Thanks Cindy. I now know the secret of success - do not start something and you will never fail.
Cheryl Baumgartner12
Medical Billing/Coding/Insurance
I won't say that I have failed but there have been times when I have had to switch directions!
Cindy Bolley16
HHCTB?
I am sure you have never failed Cheryl
Not with an attitude such as you have.
Cindy
Cheryl Baumgartner12
Medical Billing/Coding/Insurance
I won't say how many times in my life I've done a face plant. The thing is I get up brush myself off and keep moving forward. It's only failure if you fail to get up!
Cindy Bolley16
HHCTB?
Thanks Sean, Those ceilings are very low for many.
Get out that sledge hammer and give it a few wacks...
The only thing to worry about is protecting your eyes from all that glass!
Cindy
Sean North12
Business
great and inspiring article Cindy, I can't remermber who said the following I think it was zig ziglar but could be wrong and someone will correct me
F.alse
E.vidence
A.ppears
R.eal
So many people create their own glass ceilings through their own fear of failure