With the advent of sensual texting and online camera-based
communications, plain old dirty phone talk isn’t a frequent addition to a
person’s sensual life. But just as nostalgia and retro style make everything
old new again, phone sensual activity should be ready for a bit of a comeback
now. And why not? It’s fun, it requires imagination and it helps a man attend
to proper male organ care when his partner isn’t physically in
the same space.
Let the
imagination roam free.
Unlike when one is behaving sensually
with another person via a camera-based service such as Skype, engaging in
sensual activity over the phone requires both imagination and effort. That’s
not to say that Skyping is effortless; many a man works up a considerable sweat
while self-pleasuring feverishly to the transmission of visible flesh and body
parts over a sensual Skype call.
But having sensual activity on the phone
requires a different effort – also a bit of coordination. A guy has to be good
at holding the phone in one hand and stroking his equipment with the other –
and without getting them mixed up.
More importantly, he has to be able to
let his imagination and his brain come up with words to make the dirty phone
talk experience enjoyable, and hopefully memorable.
Make a
story
True, there can be sensual phone calls
that consist of little more than moaning and cries of “Oh, man!” or “Yeah, do
it!” that achieve the goal of bringing forth a release from both parties. But
often, a little more is required. The participants can create some sort of
storyline and use words more descriptive than “You’re such a turn-on” repeated
over and over.
The storyline that a couple develops
doesn’t have to be complicated, and it doesn’t have to be false, either.
Indeed, one of the most effective ways of making this story is by simply
stating some facts and asking some questions. Something like, “I’m sitting here
undressed with a raging tumescence. I miss you and wish you could be next to
me,” is an excellent way to start a story and see where it goes.
But a couple can also decide to get into
some fantasy role playing to enliven their sensual life. They may decide on a
scenario beforehand, or it could be totally improvised. Perhaps when his
partner answers, the man on the other end of the line might start off with,
“This is the Metropolitan Police, ma’am, and we understand that you’ve been a
very naughty girl lately,” or, “Hello, is this the lady across the street? The
postman delivered a package of whips and handcuffs here by mistake.”
Where the conversation goes from there
is anyone’s guess.
Use
your words.
When a couple really gets into the
sensual part of dirty phone talk, dialogue can become repetitive and may
consist of a lot of moans of pleasure. Leading up to that, however, it’s good
to try to be as descriptive as possible and to come up with new ways of saying
things. For example, when describing his firm tool, a man should move beyond
just “huge” and try “massive,” “awe-inspiring,” “staggering,” “painful,”
“agonizingly lusty” and any other words that paint a clearer picture. When
wondering about a woman’s chest, picture it as not just “amazing” but as
“luscious,” “mouth-watering,” “scandalous,” “overflowing,” “knee-weakening” and
so forth.
Keeping a couple’s sensual life fresh
takes commitment, and engaging in phone sensual activity is a marvelous way to
switch things up a bit. Naturally, a man wants to have his tool in good shape
for a marathon session, so he should regularly use a first-class male organ health crème (health
professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil). Since he wants to get the most
sensation out of his telephone encounter, he should use a crème with
neuroprotective acetyl L-carnitine, which helps to restore sensation to the
manhood. A good crème will also include vitamin C, which is essential for
collagen production and male organ firmness. The right crème helps keep any
member in better health.
Visit http://www.menshealthfirst.com for additional information on most common
male organ health issues, tips on improving manhood sensitivity and what to do
to maintain a healthy member. John Dugan is a professional writer who
specializes in men's health issues and is an ongoing contributing writer to
numerous websites.