Partner play can be hard on a man's tool. All the rubbing and
grinding can scrape skin away, and the products men might use in order to
reduce the friction can cause irritation of their own. Add in the risk of
social diseases, and it's a wonder that men choose to get down at all.
But some other types of intimate activity can also cause red male organ
concerns. For example, a man referred to here as Ken developed a red member
after he purchased a few lap dances. Here is his story of injury and the manhood care that followed.
A Feeling of Safety
"When this all started, I didn't have a steady girlfriend,
and I didn't have a lot of time to date," Ken says. "My job was going
crazy, and my parents were sick. I just didn't have the energy to run out and
find someone to date. But I still had a very strong physical drive, so I knew I
needed to do something."
"I would never pay someone for playtime, because I know
that kind of thing tends to lead to health problems I really don't want,"
Ken says. "But I started going to men's clubs, and when they offered me
lap dances, I figured that was pretty safe. I had my clothes on, and she had at
least some clothes on, so everything seemed safe enough."
The Start of Problems
"I had a few of these lap dances, all with the same girl,
and we both seemed to enjoy ourselves. But every time I had one of these
dances, I woke up in the morning with a red male organ. My skin was all chapped
and sore, and the skin was flaking off."
"This really scared me, as you might imagine, so I
high-tailed it to my doctor to find out what was happening. I know it might
sound silly, but I was actually worried that I had some serious disease due to
these lap dances. My doctor told me that wasn't possible, but I wouldn't rest
until I got the tests. Thankfully, they were clear."
"But my manhood was really red and sore, that's for sure,
so my doctor and I talked about what could have caused that. Basically, he
pointed out that my zipper was sitting right on my male organ during the lap
dance, and as she ground her body on mine, that zipper got pushed right into my
sensitive skin," Ken says. "It's no wonder I was sore!"
"Plus, I'd been using a bunch of perfumed products that
could have irritated my skin, like cologne, fabric softeners and body wash. All
of those added products could have dried out my skin, and that could have made
the soreness worse," Ken says.
A Healing Time
"The first thing my doctor told me to do was to stay away
from the lap dances for awhile," Ken says. "My sore skin needed time
to heal up and feel better, so I needed to stop. I didn't feel much like doing
that anyway, as I was pretty sore, so that was easy."
"My doctor also told me to use a gentle, non-perfumed soap
for my body, and to really rinse off after I do any kind of cleaning," Ken
says. "The fewer fragrances I have on, the better, my doctor says."
"My doctor also wanted me to look for products that could
keep my skin softer, so it could take occasional abuse without becoming red and
sore," Ken says.
Men like Ken can benefit from a manhood health cream (health professionals
recommend Man1 Man Oil). Products like this contain the emollients
that keep skin soft, blended with the vitamins and minerals skin needs in order
to heal. With regular applications, skin will be healthier than ever before.