How To Improve Your Relationship
by Dillon Patterson Article PublisherMan
is a social animal and relationships are very important in his life. Among
these relations are love, kinship, friendship, marriage etc. If we analyse
human behaviour, then we will find that human beings are also connected with
feelings and emotions. When a child is born from the mother's womb, it is
directly related to the mother and the mother is also emotionally attached to
her child. The father also becomes emotionally attached to his child. Parents
leave no stone unturned to take care of their child. They give utmost
importance to their children. The safety of the children and their needs are
taken care of. When the child asks for toys, the parents provide him with toys.
When
this child starts stepping into puberty, then he starts getting attracted
towards the opposite sex and then he comes into a new relation. Young boys and
girls make friends with each other and then move towards relationship. In many
cases, such relationships also end quickly and the situation of
lover-girlfriend separation sometimes becomes a reason for discord.
After
this, when the boy and girl get married, they start a new life. Marriage is
valid all over the world and it is approved by the society. Marriage is
considered a sacred bond which rests on the trust, love and understanding of
the husband and wife. When these things fall short in the relationship then
marriages break up. The breakdown of marriage has a very bad effect on the
children. Children are very emotional about the parent-child relationship.
Children become victims of depression and sometimes even psychopaths. They get
upset and sad seeing their parents fighting.
When
a relationship deteriorates, it affects other people and society as well. A
civilized society is said to be one where people have good relations with each
other, respect each other's feelings, do not try to impose their point of view
on others and even apologize when they make a mistake. Violence has no place in
a civilized society. Everyone has the right to have his say and every problem
is solved with goodwill. The problem is understood and then discussed. Going to
the root of the problem and eliminating it. There is a way to protest in a
civilized society. This protest is done in a civilized manner. If you don't
agree with something, you can disagree with it. Your ideology should not be
separatist, hater and phobia. If your ideology is like this then it can be
alarm bell for a civilized society.
Marriage,
the small unit of holding society together, should be saved from breaking down
under any circumstances. Children are the most affected by the breakdown of a
marriage. A woman loves her husband very much and wants to be with him but the
husband wants divorce. In this matter, one has to talk intelligently with her
husband and understand what is the problem and how to solve it. If the problem
is understood in time, a house can be saved from breakdown. In these cases,
family members should be talked to from both sides. Every effort should be made
to resolve the matter. The husband can be explained that he understands the
responsibility of his family.
The
following things should be kept in mind to improve the relationship-
1.
Husband and wife should talk openly among themselves, share their grievances.
2.
Both explain to each other what will be the future of the children, what will
be the effect on the mind of the children due to their separation
3.
Try to improve the relationship by taking all the family members and apologize
openly for your mistakes.
4.
Give the relationship a chance to improve.
5.
Sit down and find a solution to the problem.
6.
A good counselor can be discussed in these matters. A home breakdown can be
avoided if you do this. If the relationship problem is not resolved in spite of
all kinds of talks, then it is better to separate legally by mutual consent.
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