October 24, 2007

Why it is so Important to Surround Yourself With Positive People.

The reason this is so important by putting yourself with people who have skills, success and most of all self-esteem that we as humans seek. I would never ask yourself too change but consider this, how often do you and your buddies hang around and criticize circumstances in life, rather then going out and being more constructive about it.

We have all heard this before misery loves company, l do really and honestly believe this a fact of life. If you and the people you hang around with spend so much time commiserating over this about how poor life is and what a raw deal you have been dealt. Then l would think it is about time you surround yourself with more positive people in your life and for them negative people you do love and have feelings for, try this influence them with your new found positive thinking..

Positive behavior is going to create positive behavior in return for your efforts. Never forget that they will always be people who will resist this change at every turn. They will do everything to blackmail you into spending more time considering what their life is about than your own.

What l always remind myself and you should also is that your are under no obligation what so ever to serve or help people who cannot help themselves. We are always going to encounter rude people every day who will have an affect on their own moods and lower their self esteem. Think and found your way around obstacles, and you are already on your way to being successful.

All the Best,

Joseph F. Botelho