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Tips to Aid Your Child Deal With Jealousy
by Presidium Gurgaon Education
Jealously is an emotion which affects a child and hampers their social skills and personal relationships. It is quite interesting to know that jealousy is present in all human beings including small kids and the signals and signs are visible from early childhood, says a child expert at one of the best schools in Gurugram 2019. Children at this age are unnamed to comprehend or define their feelings. Jealousy when take destructive forms are extremely hurtful and to others, explains a child psychologist of a top school from a list of schools in Gurgaon 2019. So, we parents need to explain them and guide them with examples. Educate them about its repercussions.
Destructive forms of jealousy usually develop when a child exhibits low self-esteem and self- worth and perceive things negatively. Parents in such scenario should look beyond their usual surface feelings and with gentle approach should try to find the underlying cause and pay attention to eliminate the issues, and make them focus on their strength and other positive qualities, advice a Principal of one of the best schools in Gurgaon in 2019.
Let us find few important tips to assist your child cope with jealous:
1.Listen to them carefully:
To find out the underlying issues related to negative self-worth or confidence and other feelings that is triggering such feelings in your child you need to listen to them actively and make them act in a certain way, advice one of the child psychologist at a popular school from the list of schools in Gurgaon in 2019. While you are listening to them make them understand why these feelings are cropping-up and give them right solution. Listening is important to let them vent out all their negative emotions in a right way to a right person.
2.Enhance their value system:
Children are mostly drawn to feel jealous of material possessions of others and develop an urge to take control of those things sometimes forcibly or by stealing, says a child expert at one of the best schools in Gurgaon in 2019. Teach them to always follow fair means. Stealing is no way of possessing stuff. Educate them about the consequences. Save their pocket money to buy a certain toy if they want to.
3.Emphasize on their strengths:
Children also get this habit of comparing themselves with others about their physical features, possessions, and talents, etc. So, it is important that we tell them to focus on their strengths and hone their skills.
4.Adopt positive outlook:
It is important that they develop correct values from the beginning itself. You need to appreciate their individuality and values instead of their material possessions, educate a child expert at one of the best school form the list of schools in Gurgaon in 2019. Also, it is important that we tell them that not everyone is capable of getting or achieving everything that they have others might never possibly do or achieve and vice versa.
5.Encourage charity:
It is important that children develop a sense of compassion and indulge in little charitable acts, explains a child psychologist at one of the good schools in Gurgaon in 2019. This will empower them from inside. From time to time ask them to separate things that are not useful for them and keep it for donations.
Although it is impossible for humans to prevent feelings of jealousy; however, any destructive emotion needs to be controlled. We need to discipline our children with proper education.
All the best!
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