The Most Common Online Dating Myths
by Angela Hester Relationship ExpertRelationships have always been the
most complex thing in the human lives. Whether we talk about the times when
there are little or no technological advancements or in today’s epoch when we
have so many ways to meet and communicate.
However, there is one thing that is
common in both the times about dating is that it is quite a cumbersome task and
one has to work hard for it. In addition to this, currently, due to the flurry
of online
dating sites, people still have myths about it. Perhaps, people still
believe in certain common notions and opinions regarding online dating which gives
an impression that following them will help them find prospective matches.
Nevertheless, getting a clear picture about the following issue,
termed as online dating myths, will
help one in debunking them:
- Profile images are important:
This is one of the most popular myths and most of us believe in uploading an
image in which we look the best. It is necessary to have a professionally clicked
picture of yours as a profile image. It gives a clear idea how one looks like.
The most common tendency is to flip to the next person in case if he/she
doesn’t look best.
In the real world, you may find one whose profile image may not
be as appealing. But, the moment you met him/her, the flaws or the expected
facial features will give way to more genuine and authentic looks.
Online
dating sites like Blinddate.com allow users to
upload multiple images so that one can have a better idea about the prospective
partner.
- Clinging on the selection criteria: Do
you have any specific criteria or deal-breakers? You may be looking for someone
with height 6.0’’, athletic built, college grad with no encumbrances or one
with fair and pretty looking, a beautiful girl belonging to an urban area no
far than 50 miles. Having multiple and unique criteria reduce the chances of
getting the potential matches. Additionally, making every parameter compulsory
and a deal-breaker will only make you unlucky.
One has to make a list of things that he/she is looking for in
his/her potential mate. Listing and prioritizing makes it easy for you to
decide what parameter(s) one can do away with. Sites like Blinddate.com let users fill all the necessary information at the
time of registration so that one can have a fair idea about the likes, dislikes
and interests of the users.
- Don’t presume in the first meeting:
Don’t decide on the basis of the first impressions in the first meeting. There
are chances that the way you are hesitant and shy is the same way he/she feels.
Mostly, people make their mind based on certain traits in the very first
meeting like the way he/she dresses, demeanor, way of talking and treating
others, etc. However, it’s highly recommended to give a second chance to your
prospective date until he/she is totally reckless.
There are chances that you may be losing a few quintessential
deal-breakers that you may not find in the first meeting.
- Less interaction doesn’t mean lack
of interest: There are instances when you find that your date is talking
very less or not asking as much questions as you are. You may feel as if he/she
is not interested or not much into you.
This is a very common phenomenon where one person is hesitant to
share information or doesn’t ask much questions given an impression of being
not interested. However, this may be due to many reasons, one being meeting for
the first time.
Nevertheless, the more you give time and started sharing about
yourself, the more comfortable he/she will become. This will help him/her to be
more open and ask questions related to you.
Online dating site such as Blinddate.com offers actual blind
dating where the site offers blind
dating hour in which users can chat with
each other without revealing their identities. This will help users in getting
along with one another to know more about their personal lives.
The above mentioned are a few myths
related to online dating. You may have come
across with one or a couple of them. Getting an idea about these will surely
help you in debunking these. Moreover, what is generally perceived true may not
be the case with you. As we all know, everyone is totally different and
everyone has a different story. But the underline theme is the same and
everyone feels the same about these common notions.
Sponsor Ads
Created on Apr 11th 2018 09:13. Viewed 452 times.