Supporting an Addicted Spouse

Other than the addicts themselves, there are perhaps few people more greatly affected by substance abuse than the spouses of addicts. Addiction can take an incredible toll on marital relationships, and in many cases, additional counseling and therapy is required to ensure the relationship’s survival, even after the addicted spouse has successfully completed drug rehab. While dealing with an addicted spouse can be a difficult challenge, there are a few things that can be done to make the process somewhat easier.

Perhaps the first and most important thing a spouse can do is to educate him or herself on addiction. It may not be easy to understand the reasons why someone can’t get over their addiction. However, many drug rehab facilities offer additional education and support services for spouses and other family members to help them better understand the nature of addiction. Gaining this understanding of addiction can help spouses develop greater empathy and be able to provide better support.

For many individuals in recovery, the transition back to “normal” life can be quite a challenge. Even if the physical addiction is no longer such a problem, many in recovery still suffer from mental and emotional issues related to their history of addiction. A spouse needs to be willing to provide that much-needed emotional support during this time. Perhaps their recovering spouse needs to vent about their feelings. In such a case, simply listening and letting your spouse know that you care can make a huge difference.

Another important way that spouses can help their recovering loved ones is by providing healthy activities. Many drug rehab specialists recommend to find activities that are emotionally and physically uplifting—such as hiking or other outdoor activities. It is also important to keep in mind the need to help a recovering spouse avoid potential relapse triggers. For example, it’s probably best to avoid that invitation to a party where you know drinking will take place if your spouse is a recovering alcoholic.

Finally, when it comes to restoring the quality of your relationship, it is extremely likely that some relationship counseling and therapy will be required for both of you. Quite possibly one of the most important things to do after your spouse completes a drug rehab program is to seek relationship counseling. Rebuilding trust, support and love in your relationship could ultimately be what prevents a future relapse and ensures happier years to come.

Kevin Johnson is a health writer reporter for Fusion 360, an SEO and content marketing agency. Information provided by Odyssey House.