Setting Relationship Boundaries

Human beings are very complicated creatures, so it makes sense that the way they interact would also be complicated. We create relationships of all sorts, some long lasting, others not so much. We marry, divorce; have mothers, fathers, sisters, brothers, children and assorted other extended family connections; we work in a variety of jobs and mix and mingle co-workers, associates and competitors.

As complicated as our relationships are it is no wonder that often they fail, or, prevented from failing allowing the relationship to fail, we suffer through them, losing productivity and perhaps sleep along the way.

Part of maintaining a healthy relationship is the all-important step of setting healthy boundaries. Relationship boundaries allow us to work, play or interact with others without suffering the frustrations that often accompany relationships which are less than perfect. These boundaries help all parties involved in the relationship to know exactly where they stand and how they can go forward in the relationship.

Setting healthy boundaries means setting limits on information which can or will be shared and respecting the position (likes or dislikes) of the other person in the relationship. Any boundaries which are set must be agreed to by all parties in the relationship and should be designed to help further the relationship. These boundaries are not meant to limit personal expression, impinge on creativity or stifle individual growth. In fact, just the opposite. By setting healthy boundaries in a relationship both parties are meant to have more opportunities for growth, not fewer.

If you are having relationship difficulties Victor Camille Lebouthillier can help you identify problem areas and develop a plan for setting healthy boundaries in such a way as to allow you to turn a troubled relationship into a productive and healthy one.