Making Sensual Fantasies a Reality

by John Dugan Owner

There are some sensual fantasies which are extremely unlikely to become reality for most men. Yes, a man may fantasize about having steamy, lusty sensual activity with their favorite Hollywood (or Bollywood or Aussiewood, etc.) star, but for most men, such desires are aiming a bit too high. However, provided he practices good male organ health, there’s ample reason to believe a man can move any number of sensual fantasies off the wish list and into the realm of reality. It just takes a little determination and some guts.

Following are a number of common sensual fantasies along with some tips on making them realities. For most of these, the assumption is that the man is not in a relationship with a partner who is willing to go along with these fantasies. (For those with potentially willing partners, the bigger challenge is often working up the nerve to broach the subject with them in the first place.)

- Having sensual activity with an unseen partner. How many guys have fantasized about being sensually served by someone whom they can’t even see? For many, this is high on the hot sensual fantasies list. Yet it’s one of the more easily accomplished. Many adult bookstores and similar establishment have booths with openings through which one may slip a tumescent member and have it serviced by whoever lurks in the next booth. And many hook-up apps allow a person to be similarly serviced at a person’s home while blindfolded. However, and these are big caveats, one must be aware that random servicing at a booth opening or by a stranger increases the risk of social disease significantly, and that hook-up arrangements have been known to lead to a person being robbed or worse. A man needs to weigh these risks before acting on this or any other risky fantasies.

- Becoming a mile-higher. Having sensual activity while in a plane flying high in the sky sounds very exciting. Unfortunately, airplane bathrooms are notoriously cramped and airplane seats make partner-based sensual activity difficult – and again, risky. A compromise? Self-stimulate in the bathroom. It’s a legitimate form of sensual activity, and if asked for details, just smile enigmatically and say a gentleman doesn’t discuss.

- Getting tied up. More and more, people are becoming both more open about their own obsessions and more accepting of obsessions in others. Online hook-up sites often feature a variety of people who freely acknowledge their interest in and/or experience with role play and other obsessions. So meet a potential partner for a drink and see if it feels safe to move on into obsession. Big tip: Don’t engage in any role play activities without both agreeing to a “safe” word to stop the action. Also, don’t go beyond the comfort zone. If a man doesn’t feel he wants both arms tied to a bed post, he has the right to have his wishes respected.

- Trying a threesome. Again, people are more open about multiple partner activities nowadays. A little exploration and asking of appropriate questions online (and at a follow-up meeting) can help a guy decide if he and other potential members of a threesome are compatible. The biggest thing for a man to decide in advance is, “Am I okay with a threesome with two males or only with two females?”

It will be less stressful making sensual fantasies into a reality if a man sports a healthy looking manhood, so daily application of a top notch male organ health oil (health professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven mild and safe for skin) can be a boon. He will want the member to get all the nutrients possible, so he should select an oil with a range of vitamins, including A, B5, C, D and E. Also key: an oil with a powerful antioxidant (like alpha lipoic acid) to fight free radicals and prevent oxidative damage.

Visit http://www.menshealthfirst.com for additional information on most common male organ health issues, tips on improving member sensitivity and what to do to maintain a healthy manhood. John Dugan is a professional writer who specializes in men's health issues and is an ongoing contributing writer to numerous websites.