How to get my love back after breakup your ex girlfriend

In this post we are going to talk about how to get my love back after breakup, heartbreak and how to get your ex-girlfriend or your ex-boyfriend back.

How to get your ex girlfriend (or ex boyfriend) back after a break up.

When your partner decides that he does not want to continue the relationship with you, you may want to regain his love.

But you have to take into account a series of factors so that you have a chance of getting it back:

The first is to accept that after a romantic breakup that you have not decided on, you tend to find yourself fatal, so surely you will not be able to offer your best version and that will make the whole process difficult.

The second , and the most important of all is:

Love is free and free

Loving is a generous, vital and free act . There is no love that does not arise from the freedom of each one of us.

 And from that freedom with which we decide to love someone, start a relationship or do a life project together, we are free to stop loving when we feel like it.

Your partner is not yours and you are not anyone's either.

It is impossible to force anyone to love, so it is a very bad idea to go along this line.

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What not to do to get your ex back

Before trying what we can do to get our ex back, let's focus on what we don't have to do.

In fact, it's almost more important not to screw up than the actions you can proactively take to get your ex back.

What not to do if you want your ex back:

Harassing your ex or stalking what millennials say:

The need to want to know, at obsessive levels even, what your ex-girlfriend does, what new habits your ex-boyfriend has, is very common , if he is sad, if he is happy, if he is with a new partner.

And this need can lead you to spy on your partner , to chase her, to be aware of what time she is connected to WhatsApp or to hyper-analyze her publications on social networks in search of hidden messages.

But keep in mind that all of these behaviors are about you, not your ex. It is your insecurities, your low self-esteem (jealousy) or your fears that you are appeasing when you stalk or harass your partner.

And it is a very bad idea to get your love back because, as we have already said, the only option for your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend to return with you is from his freedom.

And trying to control their freedom is a guarantee that that person will never love you again in life.

Reproaches and making you feel bad:

When your partner leaves you, it is easy for you to come up with a thousand reproaches to make. What if she has not fought for the relationship, what if you have given more, what if ...

But in reality those reproaches have to do with your anger. If you have so many things to blame your ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend, why do you want to resume the relationship?

Allow yourself to manage your anger and frustration without trying to hurt your ex, and when you talk to her, don't do it to blame her for everything she did wrong. 

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3 useful strategies to get your ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend back

1 Try to be your best version: And being your best version implies, from the outset, doing it for yourself , not for your ex. Try to heal your wounds, regain your self-esteem, manage your frustration, and recover from the loss.

2 Learn from your mistakes : If your partner has left you, why has it been? You work too much? Do you only have time for friends? Were there coexistence problems?

Understanding what has failed will allow you to improve in those areas (if you really want to). If to change the things that your ex didn't like you have to stop doing things that are important to you, maybe your ex has done a favor by severing the relationship.

3 There are no magic recipes : There are no magic recipes to get your ex back. No love filters, no Ethiopian magicians, no tricks that work at all times.

Empower yourself (be your best version), improve in the areas of couple and respect their times.

When ex sees that you are your best version, that you have changed the things that distanced you and that you respect his decision to separate, he may consider if he wants to be with you again because he has realized that he loves you.

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