How to Find a Perfect Match For Yourself

Posted by Nikki Girdhar
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Feb 11, 2016
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They say marriages are made in heaven, but in order to find your heavenly made match, you need to do the hunt. In many cases, parents or relatives do the task for you, but the best is you find the match yourself as you know what you’re looking for in your perfect partner.

Before starting the search you need to make sure what characteristics are you looking for in a person to be your match. For that, 'Draw a Picture' of your perfect partner in your mind.  Accumulate all that you’re looking for.  Similar to many single people, you may have a rough idea of qualities that you are looking for in a soul mate. Maybe some vague ideas about someone who is: tall, love sports, slim, talks well etc. You may also have made the exception, as in, whom you would not even consider, such as- An alcoholic, a loud person, a short heighted person or anything. It’s you who is supposed to make the choices, as eventually, you have to spend the rest of your life with that one person. So, It is very important to be clear about what you desire in your partner. How about writing down about it? By writing the desirable qualities down in details, you will be able to understand and perhaps learn some things about your own self.  Just think about all the aspects you are looking for.

Now the question lies, where do you start your hunt?

There are several of platforms available offline and online, where you can look out.

1.       Classifieds- You can opt out for newspapers that are more prominent in your area. Choose the newspaper that has more reach and higher circulation rate. Check the newspaper ads, the matrimonial ads etc.

2.       Online Portals- There are several online portals that offer various services and filters for you to find your desired matches.

3.       Applications- You can look for many applications that are more convenient and easy to use. These applications are at your finger tips.

So basically, the main objective with the task to hunt a match is to draw out your image of what your perfect partner is likely to be looking for with some general attributes and with whom you can imagine yourself years after. Ask to yourself 'What would my better half be like' ‘a perfect match' a well rounded person?' and try to answer these questions. 

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