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On the website of the recent Journal of Higher Education Chronicle, you will read such a message: a young girl sent 3000 text messages in a month. This means she sends an average of 100 messages per day, or 1 message every 10 minutes of conversation. Therefore, naturally, it is difficult for her to spend more than 10 minutes alone. This means that she has never been alone—that is, only with her thoughts, her dreams, her worries and expectations.
Professor Jonathan Zimmerman of New York University pointed out that three-quarters of American teenagers spend every minute of their available time on “Facebook” or “My Space” ( MySpace) and other sites: chat. He believes that for today’s internet addicted teenagers, chat sites are a new type of deadly drug. Have you heard of the kind of pain that people experience in the process of detoxification? Young people and not-so-young people are the same, addicted to other drugs and cannot extricate themselves.
In our unpredictable, constantly surprised and extremely strange world, the possibility of being alone in the future is really frightening; one can find many reasons to regard living alone as an extremely disturbing, perilous and chilling situation. "Walkman" is the first mobile device. Its inventor and seller promised customers: "(You will) be no longer alone!" As long as you want, it allows you to use it anytime and anywhere Go to "listen to the world". They know that millions of people on the street feel lonely. They don’t like loneliness and think it means pain and incompatibility. People who are lonely are not only unaccompanied, but also sad because they do not have such company. Since the house is empty all day long, every room is full of televisions, there is no kitchen, no dining table, or the company of others, so they don’t know how to pass the time.
The emptiness left by the disappearance of other people’s company is not reduced by relying on the continuous noise of the Walkman, but only aggravated the emptiness. That kind of recurrence has disappeared, and the companionship that is increasingly missed by people is more and more missed by people. Now it seems to be back, although it is through electronic screens instead of wooden doors, with a new analog or digital—but these two Both situations are virtual-in the form of avatars.
First of all, I will never be alone anymore, never. Every minute-7 days a week, 24 hours a day-just press a button, and you can get company from many lonely people. Second, build relationships with others without being forced to trade, and don’t let yourself be coerced by others to do things you don’t like. As soon as there is a bad sign of turning to this kind of transaction, the so-called "relationship" will break immediately. So there is no risk, no excuses, apologies or lying; just a light touch with your fingertips is enough, no effort and no risk at all. Even if you sit in a crowded house, or hang out in a large shopping mall with a lot of people, or hang out on the street with a bunch of friends and playmates, you may still have this idea in mind and entertain yourself.
So is this paradise on earth? Dream shines into reality, what about the end? It is undeniable that the ambivalent mentality that is difficult to release in human interaction-both comforting and exciting, but feels difficult to deal with and full of pitfalls-how to solve it in the end? Views on such issues are still divided. However, what seems to be beyond the controversy is that all this comes at a price, because once you are "always online" you may not be completely and truly alone. In addition, if you are never alone, then as Professor Zimaman said: “You are unlikely to have the pleasure of reading a book, drawing a picture, looking out from the window, or imagining other people instead of your own world... …You’re unlikely to communicate with real people around you. When a friend is just a click, who wants to communicate with family members?”
To escape loneliness, you give up the opportunity to be alone on the road: only in this advanced condition can a person "focus on thinking", contemplate, reflect, and innovate-thus giving meaning and practical content to the communication at the end. But if you have never had such an experience, then you will never know what you have given up, lost, and lost.
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