Dispelling the Myths about Intimacy and Pregnancy
by John Dugan OwnerFor men
with a baby on the way, things are probably going quite well indeed. Their
family is growing, their lovely female companion is about to get that rosy
glow, and they’re looking forward to a unique kind of intimacy that they only
get to enjoy for about nine months. It makes sense that a man pays much more
attention to member care during
this time, in the hopes that his lovely lady will notice and want to play in
the bedroom.
But
there are many men who might roll their eyes and sigh about pregnancy, mostly
because they have bought into the myths that say things go downhill during this
time. Here’s what a man really needs to know about intimacy, pregnancy, manhood
health and more.
Myths
about intimacy and pregnancy
Ready
for the truth? Here are some of the most common myths and the truth of the
matter:
1)
Intimacy will hurt the baby. Unless the doctor has specifically said there is some medical
condition that eliminates penetration for the course of the pregnancy, a little
bedroom action isn’t going to hurt the little one in the slightest. To be
perfectly safe, check with the doctor at the first exam to make sure everything
is still good to go on the sensual front.
2)
She won’t want intimacy.
On the contrary! Pregnant women deal with a multitude of hormones coursing
through their bodies, and many of those hormones make them want to have
intimacy – and lots of it. However, don’t be surprised if she’s a little turned
off during the first three months, as that’s the time morning sickness hits.
Nobody (man or woman!) wants to have intimacy when they feel like they’re going
to throw up with the slightest movement. But during the second and third
trimester, she is probably going to say “bring it on!”
3)
Doggy is the only position that will work. That’s definitely not true, and in fact, some women
might find doggy quite uncomfortable. The usual missionary is tough, thanks to
that growing belly. So a guy will need to get creative with his sensual
positions, including plenty of woman-on-top and side-to-side in his repertoire.
4)
The baby knows what’s going on. A being so tiny and new has no clue what coupling is,
so there’s no way he or she could possibly know or understand what’s going on
down there. Besides that, the motion of coupling and the rhythmic muscle
contractions a woman experiences during release might actually be soothing to
the baby.
5)
It will spark early labor. When a woman is very pregnant, right at the end of the pregnancy, a
little intimacy might go a long way toward getting things ready to go. But in
most cases, this activity will not bring on labor. To be safe, ask the doctor
if and when the sensual activity needs to stop in order to help ensure the baby
stays in as long as it should.
6)
I just felt the baby!
No, that wasn’t the baby. That was the cervix, which might be a little lower
near the end of the pregnancy. However, if a guy is feeling this, he might also
be causing pain for his lovely lady, so it’s important that communication stays
open and free. If she is complaining of pain or cramping, stop the action
immediately.
7)
She won’t want intimacy after the baby. Yes, she will. But it will take some time for her
body to heal, so count on at least a few months of an off-limits sensual life.
And in fact, a guy might not want coupling, either, depending upon how much
sleep the new parents are getting!
Whether
intimacy continues during pregnancy or not, a guy should keep his member ready
to go with a top-notch male organ crème (health professionals
recommend Man 1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven mild and safe for skin).
Look for a crème that contains a multitude of vitamins and nutrients, such as
vitamin A, B5, C, D and alpha lipoic acid. Also look for a crème with Shea
butter and vitamin E, to provide plenty of important hydration.
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