7 Simple Steps to Deal with an Egoistic

“Ego” was born when you start kicking inside your mother’s womb. Ego can be simply explained as the “I” or self part of a person. So what is ego? It is like your own shadow. The moment you are physically present, you have a shadow. The shadow is neither good nor bad. If the sun is above, you will have a little shadow. If the sun is down, you will have a mile-long shadow. Whichever way the situation demands, that is the kind of shadow you have. That is also the kind of ego you should have. But people find it very difficult to deal with ego, as they are not aware of being egoistic.

Researches show that ego can lead a person to the height of its negativity. This negativity includes criticizing and judging others, acting manipulative, severe mood swings, feeling fearful, anxious, taking simple things too seriously, trying to control over others and many more. These negativities can lead to severe misery in a person’s life. You will be really feeling annoying to deal with an egoist at a sudden point of time, especially if it is your boss or wife. It is also very difficult to be romantic with an egoist wife. But you can always try to make her feel special by gifting them in white carrier bags.  An egoistic person is not a bad person but their mind is filled up with faults and envies. Their minds are constantly running with thoughts that they do or say is absolutely correct. 

To identify the person having ego, you need to have some knowledge about them. They will have 

• High Confident

• Pride Level Will Be Extraordinary

• Introvert 

• Too much Adamant

• Difficult to Handle

• Feels Comfortable in Insulting Anyone 

To deal with an egomaniac is really very difficult. But you can challenge yourself by following few tips. 

2. Stay Focused – It is unnecessary to mix with a difficult person, or try to be his or her friend. Simply stick with the point of discussion and let it go.

3. No Personal Talks – Try to avoid being personal or having any personal talk with an ego maniac. As it can lead you to some debatable situation or criticism.  Please make a point to be strongly focused on the topic. 

4. Try to Invent the Trigger Point in Them – You just need to find out the point where an argument can start. To stop this you need to avoid the situation. If you see that the environment is becoming little debatable then try to change the topic. It may not stop the difficult person to talk but it can help you in not turning the situation ugly.

5. Don’t force them to understand your point of view – Do not try to emphasize your point of view to these people. Because they will never understand. And the result of trying to make them understand will go in vain.

6. Stay Calm – To deal with an egoist person, you need to be little calm and quiet. Because by staying calm you are not only saving your own energy but also you are showing values to the person standing in front of you. 

7. Never Go For Shopping – Never do a mistake in going shopping with an egoist. The reason behind is these egoist people will always try to suppress your choice with their choices. You must have a wish about buying large carrier bags filled with outfits, but if you have a partner who is too egoist will find faults in it and give thousands of reasons for not buying it.

Like many things, ego is one of those which we can’t eliminate from nature. So, instead of trying hard to destroy “EGO” we can always try to avoid it and keep everything under control. Ego has and always will be one of the main reasons for the downfall of human beings. The only thing we can do is to try and control our own respective egos and to not let them rule our heads.