3 Things Husbands Keep From Their Wives

Many experts in the field of marriage therapy and counseling found that husbands usually keep secrets from their wives. Paul Tournier once said, “Nothing makes us so lonely as our secrets.” This is very true in a committed relationship. 

Inside of a wedded relationship, both the husband and wife are supposed to be able to share everything and develop a deep, trusting relationship. When husbands in Utah and other states keep things from their wives it negatively affects their relationship. This is a list of 3 common things that men keep from their wives.

Husbands Think They Are Smarter Than Their Wives

More than half of husbands in Utah and across the United States think they are smarter than their wives. Most husbands don’t want their wife to know they feel this way but continue to think and not divulge this secret. 

Something they usually don’t take into account is that men and women both excel at different things. Men tend to be better at focusing on one thing while women are better at multitasking and also better at relationships.

Husbands Think About Other Women During Sex

Much of scientific research suggests that men are programmed to spread their seed and be with many different partners. This is a man’s way of coping with a monogamous relationship. 

Researchers say that women should not be offended or worried about it as long as the person is fictional or invented. If the husband is picturing someone else in particular then it can lead to problems further down the road and even marriage therapy.

Husbands Check-up on Their Wives

Most husbands in Utah and other states are curious about their wives’ lives. When the opportunity presents itself, they tend to check out their phone and computer. A big factor in this is lack of trust. A good relationship that needs no marriage therapy will result from complete openness in every aspect of life.

These three things are the most common; there are also things that wives tend to keep secret from husbands as well. Honesty is the best policy in life and especially in marriage.

Nate Myers is a relationship writer reporter for Fusion 360, an SEO and content marketing agency. Information provided by Swinton Counseling.