Little Girl
This is a story of a little girl who came to this world as a result of a wrong decision taken by a christian man and a Muslim lady who decided to get married then found out that they don't belong together.The little girl opened her eyes to find her parents fighting all the time, even on silly things. She used to watch with her little eyes her mother being beaten and insulted by her father who was cruel, tough and mentally sick.
The mother thought many times of leaving him but she was worried about her little girl growing away from her father.
The little girl spent her first five years suffering what she had to witness everyday until the mother took her decision of taking her daughter and leave while the father was in a business trip. She packed their stuff and left to her parents house.
The mother thought it's better for her daughter to grow without a father than to end up without both because the hate and anger she had for him were growing daily and she was afraid that she'll end up killing him for the way he treats her and then her daughter will end up with a dead father and a convicted of murder mother.
The mother started her new life with her daughter from scratch specially when the father started causing her problems at work that she couldn't keep her job and had to stay home for over 10 months trying to find a new job that the father couldn't find her there.
All the hurt, insult and misery he caused to his wife and daughter were not enough to his sick mind so he wanted to punish the mother for leaving him by going to the daughters kindergarten and tell them that the family is traveling to another country and he needs to take back the school tuition the mother paid for this year leaving his daughter without a school.
When the school called the mother a week before the semester starts to ask her if she wishes to register the daughter again, the mother found out what the father did and freaked out!!! She has no money, no job and no one to ask and her daughter had to stay at home wondering why isn't she going to school like other kids. Her little mind couldn't understand how could a father do this to her!!!
Finally, the mother found a good job and she decided not to tell anyone where she works so her ex wouldn't cause her a new trouble. She started to build a life for herself and her daughter and things started to get better and was able to send her daughter to school again.
Slowly, things started to improve for them and the mother could finally settle down with her daughter. The daughter's family were out of the picture all this time and didn't offer any help for the mother to help the daughter grow in a healthy atmosphere. They were taking their son's side although they know he was totally wrong. And although they were very rich but they never thought of paying anything for the daughter just to punish her mother for leaving their son.
After two years, seems like the ex found out were the mother works and decided that since she didn't beg him for money all this time, then maybe if he caused a new problem for her at work, leaving her without a job might give him the joy so he did and she stayed for another 10 months looking for a job. She had to pack their stuff and leave the apartment because she couldn't pay the rent, not to mention the lawyers who started to call her asking for money for her un-paid bills.
School started, and the daughter was again not registered because the mother couldn't afford to pay for the school until the daughter's aunt offered to pay so the daughter wouldn't stay at home and feel less than other children specially that she is very smart and has sensors for details. Again, the aunt paid for the next year tuition because the mother's job wasn't stable until the mother soaked in debits.
It's been almost 6 years now, not the father or any member of his family paid a penny for the daughter or even asked to see her and the mother had to find away every year to cover school expenses and the daughter's lives the fear every year that she might not be able to join school. It was an excellent reason for her to turn from a very smart kid into a lazy one who is very aggressive, easily distracted and hates school. Not to mention how much she hates her father and his family for abandoning her and letting her live day by day worrying about things she doesn't have to worry about until she ended up like an old lady in a little girl's body.
The world is so mixed up in the little girl's mind. If a father acts like this with his own child, how would strangers act??? If you have a dog, you may have treated him better. You would feel sorry to lose him or if someone treats him bad.
Why should a little girl worry about money or expenses? Why should she look sad when a child gets a present from their family and she doesn't? Why should she look at her friend's things and wishes if she could have one thing of what they have? Why should her biggest wish is to go to school?
I wonder what personality this little girl will have when she grows older? How cruel will she be? If her parents took a wrong decision, why should she spend her whole life paying for this mistake?? Will she find someone to help her get over this pain??
I really hope so...
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Comments (17)
Jasna Sato10
Own business,Food Supplement
In this world there are many cases,kinds of life i think this is not a very bad situation it there so many reason why it is happening in this story mentioned about religion muslim and christian but not mentioned if this is the problem.Honestly I believe that if you are not same religion this is the number one problem in your relationship.
Just Me5
Actually, the main reason why I shared this story is because the little girl who will be 11 years old on September is out of control for a while now, nothing is working with her and the mother is freaking out as she tried everything with her but it doesn't seem to be working. Also, all her teachers are complaining from her attitude and how aggressive she's becoming lately and although she is a sharp smart kid but her grades are turning from excellent to fine which is really disappointing. Replyi
Just Me5
I really appreciate your gesture Mr. Yunus. I really feel sad why couldn't the government offer any kind of help or even responded to any of the e-mails and correspondence sent although it wasn't financial help that they were asked for. It was mostly to back off the father from any future harassment against the mother in order to be able to provide herself and daughter a decent life but ... No response, no action... no one cared!! Thanks again!
Robert Leisk6
Marketing
There are to many children from all walks and lives suffering because of adults making wrong decisions. It hurts me deeply when I read and I feel that the world has lost its compassion and care in favour of money and posessions
JOSEPH CHACKERY13
Officer
There are many such incidents reported and still happening in other parts of world as well!
All the inter-caste marriages are not failures! Here neither the religion of the parents is to be blamed nor the community can help them out in this issue, but they really have to undergo 'relationship counselling' in a bid to help them resolve their problems for ever.
Paula van Dun16
Retired
I have great respect for the mother. And I feel sorry for the little girl. What will become of the little girl when she becomes older? I wonder too. Kids are very flexible and can endure a lot. Young kids can be influenced easily, either bad or wrong and have the tendency to adopt the values and behavior of the parents, in this case the mother. I don't know in which atmosphere she grows up. If the mothers talks about the father negative all the time she will learn to hate. If the mother does not
George Nicholson5
Healthy Living By Sonny
Wow, this is a terrible situation and it seems that the government in Jordan needs to look into
what the US does for such cases. Being a christian father and married to a Jewish Wife for 37
years proves to me that religion has nothing to do with this matter. The man in question has on the other hand a major problem, maybe he was an abused kid and he never dealt with the issue. No matter what, the wife was smart to finally get out of the situation. I hope and pray
that she gets the help she ne
Cheryl Baumgartner12
Medical Billing/Coding/Insurance
Like I said they have a long way to go. Here in the US there were supposedly laws on the books to protect women and children but they were largely ignored for years. Police did not take action, courts did not take action and it was because people not the laws accepted it as normal. Until the general population gets involved on a massive scale the status quo will continue.
There are still women in the US today that believe a man has the right to 'chastise' his wife. There are still women t
Just Me5
As far as I know, this story has been share with nealy all governemental institutions that has to do with Domestic Violence, Human Rights, Child Abuse...etc but nothing was made at all. It even was sent to Queen Rania who is leading these groups and no one took any action relating to stopping the father from abusing the mother and daughter or helping the child live in a healthy atmosphere or the mother to live peacfully and get a decent job!
Cheryl Baumgartner12
Medical Billing/Coding/Insurance
The very first sentence of the article is:
"This is a story of a little girl who came to this world as a result of a wrong decision taken by a christian man and a Muslim lady who decided to get married then found out that they don't belong together."
This gives the reader the impression that the issue is religious in nature. You didn't explain that the father uses this as an excuse within the article, so the first impression the reader gets is the one that the rest of the article is based o
Just Me5
Many of you will ask, why is the mother suffering sending her child to school or why is it a problem to send her to a public schools (Governmental School) where she can get free education?
Check out this link and you'll see what happens in public schools (governmental schools) in Jordan.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xjcksn4k-Ws
Not to mention that the mother is setting her gaol to give her daughter the best education in a healthy atmosphere away from child abuse that the daughter has a
Just Me5
I never mentioned it was a religious problem but the father used to bring it up all the time and kept on insulting the mother just for being Muslim. The surprising thing is that since he hates them that much, why did marry from them???
This story happened in Jordan!
Cheryl Baumgartner12
Medical Billing/Coding/Insurance
The religion of the parents is not the issue here. There are truly wonderful people out there that identify as Christian and just as many that identify as Muslim. The problem is that the father has mental issues he is an abuser and the mother did the right thing by leaving and taking her daughter.
The breakdown is the lack of support for the mother. I'd like to know what country this took place in.
Sinful F.9
Money Online
so sweet.........
Just Me5
No one cared. This issue was reported to many organizations in the country but no response received and no action was taken! Prime Ministry, Human Rights... No one!
A S Kumar9
Netpreneur
Will not the organizations helping victimized women come forward to help?