Contacts on Apsense

As a Social Worker & Counselor I find it really strange trying to understand when we contact people on Apsense or they have left a comment on one of our Campaigns so we then ask them to be a friend to say thank you and they Decline...!!
I couldn't imagene in my field of work if I was to decline one of the Children I was given to protect where would they be if I had the choice to decide if that child was not worthy of my friendship.....
Maybe I am niave but I believe everyone is a potential friend good or bad we all have something to learn from each other and if we are not willing to have an open heart then we as humans should expect many doors never to open...
I hope that all people on Apsense will at least be open to any contact as it could be the contact that starts an amazing global friendship!
Vikki-Lee :-)
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Comments (28)
Abraham Van der Lind...8
Online Entrepreneur
@Vikki-Lee.
Always a pleasure. Push my button any time you need help.
I'm only a mouse-click away.
Tracey Niass2
i find on other sites some people don't want to add you...see it as their loss...after all they could be missing out on good tips to help their business..the good tips that you may give:)
Vikki-Lee O'Meara8
You would never offend me Abraham & I take onboard your constructive critisicm as it is valuable and at the same token again people need to take the time & maybe ask is your profile who you are or take the time like you have to suggest a better way of putting ourselves across as human beings because we all need to learn but in a nice way like you have taken the time to do :-) x
Abraham Van der Lind...8
Online Entrepreneur
@Vikki-Lee.
You need to remember, this is the "Online world", people don't know you, I mean REALLY don't KNOW you. All they see is what you write on your profile page and a picture.
Apsense like all other social networking sites have become very commercialized. Most of the people are trying to sell something, in other words, they are marketers, mainly interested in selling their own product or service.
Might I sugest something to you?
I've looked at your profile, Good (to me, anyway)
Vikki-Lee O'Meara8
Thank you all I do not hold a grudge just do not understand why people make judgements when they do not even know who you are let alone judge a human being that to me is wrong :-) Thank you so much for you valued comments..xx
Amy Lori W.2
Hi Vikki,agree with you. We sure sometimes met what you said. Don't mind it. You still have chance to find more friends.
Have a nice day!
Amy
Abraham Van der Lind...8
Online Entrepreneur
Hi Vikki-Lee. You raise a good question here. One to which there might not be an answer. I certainly do not have an answer.
This has happened to me too, I just let it go. Sometime in the future after the people see the quality of your content and the way you behave, they might decide to become a contact.
My advice would be to just let it go and don't hold a grudge.
Keep safe.
Chukwuekwu Okonta12
Forensic accountant
Nice blog on conctacts on apsense to ease communication