Staying Motivated

this week was a rough on me. i am a student, as well as a parent of young children. everything that you can think of went wrong this week. i started early and worked hard on a paper that was due. i was putting the final touches on the day it was due, when 4 hours before the deadline to email the assignment to my professor, my pc decides to show me that it is boss. i spent 5 hours trying to submit that assignment. Yes, this means my computer made me late. luckily, it was only a small assignment. it was nothing big. nevertheless, it took some years off my life. lol. it's the beginning of the school year for the kids too. this means that teachers will be rushing you like the summer vacation is continuing for you. they act like you will be doing nothing but staring at the ceiling, until your kid gets home. on top of that, i live in the rural state of texas. things are so spread out, you have to take a grey hound bus to go grocery shopping, if you don't have car. i have one, but (sigh) i don't want to get into picking that thorn in my side. having to meet everyone's demands, in  the "progressive" state of texas, with a lemon as your source of transportation, isn't easy. fill in all i just told you, with everything else you could think of short of total disaster. the less than peaceful events of this week have taken me away from building my online business. it also had me so drained, i even wondered whether or not my efforts were just pointless.

i have been making money online now for a little over two years. i am not yet at my 6 figure income goal, but i will be there. if you asked me a few days ago, i forgot that. i let the stress of life hassle task (except for taking care of my kids), question my passion for my online business. i became unmotivated and tired. my pc made me so mad and shell shocked, i almost didn't want to touch it. after all, it almost made me get a zero on my first assignment. how else could it fail me in my business? although i fell asleep to this kind of negative internal dialogue, i woke up with a fresher attitude. you see, sometimes all we need is sleep. when we're stress out and tired, there is no way our thoughts are clear. our thoughts control what we do and how we act. since i was so tired, i got mixed signals. my brain was not processing anything correctly. i also wasn't eating right. this is also important to what kind of signals go to your brain, and how you process your thoughts. you internal dialogue with yourself can have an effect on the results of whatever you attempt. i forgot that. i also forgot that if you believe in your heart, envision in your mind, and carry actions that show you are successful, you will be successful. you first have to want something. then you have to imagine your self as if you already have it. all the while, you have to do things actively to help your vision come to fruition. your motivations, or your reasons for wanting something is th driving force being you achieving any goal, whether it be a getting a job, running your online business, or graduating from school.

my reasons are for working from home are wanting to stay home with my family, avoid the cost of child care  and high gas prices, just to go to work, avoiding daily interaction with a boss that probably makes no more that i do, but happy to remind me that he/she owns me (both of us making money for people who probably don't even work).  furthermore, i couldn't work a full time job if i wanted to anyway, because i have been found to be disabled. what are your reasons for wanting to work from home and make money online? whatever those reasons are, never forget them. when you get unmotivated, call the reasons why you want to work from home and be your own boss. also, be consistent. put daily routine efforts in to building your business, or marketing strategies, whether it be 1, 2, 3, or 4 hours daily. we should remember that every time we push on the gas, just a little bit will get us somewhere. what i mean is, this week i forgot that none of my efforts were in vain. everything i am doing right now, are the elements of success later, even if i can't see it yet. even what i consider set backs, are actually building blocks of my success. it's part of the learning process. i couldn't help others, unless i needed help at one time first. i had to go through all the scams and bumb egg money opportunities, before i finally saw a dime from my efforts, for instance. now, i can help others at least increase there income, because i have found ways to make extra money online that worked for me. so, i have progressed and will progress further. we all have to remember to stick to building toward our goal, no matter obstacles get in your way.

work on you business venture for financial freedom, making extra money, or any goal you set for yourself every day. fight the obstacles, including unmotivated. if you feel tired, and just at the end of your rope. take a break, rest, eat right, exercise, mediate/pray, and have fun. work on your personal and spiritual needs, then get right back in the saddle. before you do, recollect why you set your goal. imagine that you already have achieved it, and live that way. these are what all of the experts in the online business world, and other successful people have recommend, including a member of one of my uplines. i forgot the skills i learned from them, this week and almost quit everything, just because of fatigue, and loosing focus. this is why it is good to seek aid from your uplines, and the people who have gotten you into your online business. communicate with your sponsors. they have been where you are, and felt what you have felt. they are not only there to train you on how to make money doing an online business.  they are there to help keep you  positively motivated. we need each other sometimes to help us do that. 

one of the programs i am working on is called 6dgr. it is a free paying social network site. Members get paid for each person who they refer to the network, and becomes an active member for free. although, i have only been with 6dgr for a few months. my direct upline member has been doing more than giving me support and valuable training in making money online. he is the person i go to when i have been feeling the way i did this week, in terms of my online business goals. if you join 6dgr with me, you will  also benefit from expertise and support. he has really been helping me to increase my income and making money online. he also holds weekly training meetings via skype (Monday, 8pm, EST U.S TIME, Skype name dford15). he'll show you how to get sign ups for 6dgr, or any other program you are working on...GUARANTEED, and how to make money online. ere is a video he did on motivation. it is centered around 6dgr, but you can take the message and apply it to any goal you set for self. i want to share it with you. please watch it. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D5MlV49-Gmo

This is another good video to watch. I don't subscribe to everything it is trying to convey, in totality, but there are some good lessons that you can apply to you life, when trying to achieve your goals. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_b1GKGWJbE8

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