How to Get Your Wife Back After Divorce?

Posted by Matthew
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Nov 11, 2008
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People sometimes do marry the same person twice believe it or not?

It's not impossible to get your wife back after you have divorced. If you want to
know how to get your wife back after divorce you could look for inspiration at
one of the most famous examples of people marrying twice. The actor Richard
Burton remarried Elizabeth Taylor again after they got divorced. But how can
two people that have gone through the trauma of divorce, ever get back together again?

It's a lot easier to prevent divorce before it gets to the point of legal separation and
finality but the process of patching things up and getting back together again is
the same whether you have divorced or not.

I'm not a marriage councilor nor did I manage to prevent my 20-year relationship
from breaking up amicably when we had drifted apart. Over the years I've
watched as many of my friends got divorced and I've noticed a few things that
are common in all these situations including my own.

The broken relationships that I've witnessed seemed to fail either, because neither
partner wanted to save it, nor just one of the pair wanted to and used
techniques that appeared very reasonable at the time but were completely ineffective.

If at least one of you wants to stop divorce then you have a chance to do so
I guess that there's nothing to be done when neither partner wants to save the
marriage but there has to be at least a chance if one of you does. So what is it
that so many people in this situation do wrong?

Perhaps they try too hard. They plead with their partner to reconsider and promise
that they will change their ways. This is natural human behavior and most
would consider it a reasonable course to take but it rarely works unfortunately.
If you're trying to get your wife back after a divorce or prevent your marriage
breaking up then pleading is the last thing you should do. You should be
concentrating on making yourself more attractive to your partner instead of
persuading her that you're weak by pleading and lying about changes that
you'll make that she knows that you won't.

Be strong, that’s how to get your wife back after divorce
Don't plead, don't argue and don't become inconsistent by agreeing with her opinion
just because you think that's what she wants to hear. Be strong, dress well and
start to take charge of your own life. Show her that you can live without her;
she just might decide that she's missing something by not being with you.

Women are attracted to men who are strong and capable of protecting them. They're
repulsed by weak pleading and prefer to do the chasing themselves. So be strong,
confident, self sufficient and consistent with your opinions. It could make all the
difference and the secret of how to get your wife back after divorce.

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