Back to Basics. Do families still eat together? ~*~

How was everyones Thanksgiving!
I took on the challenge of doing all the cooking this year.
We had 20 guest for dinner. It reallly felt good to have the warmth of company, and have so many people eating together at the same time. It was a beautiful day for me.
Everyone pitched in and helped with the dishes too, wish I had that kind of help everyday..lol.

Hi Garnet. The computer is so fun, I have found myself hooked on Apsense this entire week. I'm proud to say, that we managed to have supper togther all week long. Though, I kept hearing a sound and I asked where it was coming from. My youngest had the Ninetendo hid up under the table..lol. Well..were getting "Back To Basics" slowly but surely.

I for one can honestly say my family sits at the table and eats together. The tv is turned off(personally I RARELY watch it). Just last night my wife MADE me shut the laptop off, instead of eating while checking my mail like usual(grrr!). Then what does she do, starts reading a magazine!!! OMG!!!

Hi Lisa and everyone,

Thanks for such good advice, and also for some great comments in here. You have given me some really good ideas to take some positive action. I lived without a television in the house for eighteen months once. I had a LOT of time on my hands to do everything, but I was also a bit of a social misfit. Until you lose the tv, you don't realise how much day to day conversation revolves around television shows. Even now I have blanks in the conversation every now and agai

I've said my piece but, reading other comments, I have to ask, isn't it about time that television was removed from the centre of family life?

I dread visiting people where the living room is dominated by this monstrous time guzzler because I know that someone will want to switch it on - - - - soon!

Like cigarettes, TV is addictive. You get hooked! You need your fix!

Visitors? Oh, yes. I won't be long, just waiting to find out if Diedre really is a man.

Bring the family back into the

Not eating in front of the TV is a good thing.

I don't know about the rest of us, but I tend to pack on weight when I eat in front of the TV. I tend to choose unheatlhy stuff and I don't fully watch the quality of the food, when I'm watching TV, guess that's the biggest culprit. Suppose, once in awhile its okay.

I grew up living with my mom. After she got home from work, she would become the TV queen, while I finished making dinner (I loved to cook, so it wasnt really a "chore") Anyway, she would come to the table and we would all sit together for dinner every night...but the TV remained on in the other room for background noise--LOL. If there was something really good on, we would be allowed to eat in the livingroom, but it was very rare and it was a "special" thing.
Now, I rarely eat in front of the

Thanks Jeunelle.

Sitting on the toilet eating..lol.
Grandma watching jeopardy with a TV Dinner..lol.

That's too much..ha..ha.

How can we all regain the Family Time that we used to have?

A House that's not a home, that is so true Jeunelle. Sounds like a good book title.

Hi Mizrae,
That's funny about your brother. Our little neighbor friend always seems to do the same thing...lol. Espeically when I make my mothers famous lasagne, he must smell it or something..must be the garlic.

We never had the "silence" thing at dinner time. My dad would just remind us to talk in a low tone. My Dad was always sitting at the end of the table to, with my mom beside him and my brother and I always across from each other. I don't even think this was a rule of sorts, just

Hi Penny,

Sounds like we have similiarites. Somtimes I feel uptight, and then I realize...it's hearing too much TV sound in the background..lol. I turn it off and tell my son that's enough, and Swhooh..the house is so relaxing again.

One thing that has worked for me, is to have pleasant mucic on in the background, rather than the TV. Something that the kids wont think is dorky of course..lol, but something that everyone feels happy and relaxed too. We have found music with guitar works

This is a subject close to my heart. When I was a child, we always sat around the table as a family for breakfast and for dinner, and lunch on weekends. The tv was in another room and was off.

Now I have a child, I would love for the three of us to share meals in the same way.

However, my husband comes from a tv dinner family. Yes, they sit around the table at least, but I was actually quite shocked the first time I was invited to my in-laws' for a meal. My father-in-law actually turn

"The Old Coot" and I must be about the same age, as I too remember sitting around the dinner table in silence. But the whole family was there and dinner might not be served at the same time everynight, everyone ate together. As we grew, the silence rule changed, and I had one brother who was never home. He was constantly gone roaming the neighborhood, fishing, hanging out with his buddies. Why do I mention him? It's the standing joke to this day: he always came home right when everyone wa

Oh..thanks Healthy Fishies! I did not scroll down far enough to see your comment. Sorry about that. I sure appreciate the compliment, and glad that my blog was inspiring.
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Thanks OC (forgive me...I don't want to call you The Old Coot..lol) I could not find your first name or initials anywhere. I sure plan to give this family thing my best efforts. It was much easier when my kids were younger. Now that one is a teen and one is a tween, it's been extra hard to arrange dinner time for 4. I agree too, spending quality time with ones family is so important.

Hi Wendy! I could just visualize your family sitting around the table and your hubby innocently saying th

Hi, Lisa,

I wish you success with your family time and hope that you can keep it up.

One of the great things that has changed since I was a child is the fact that talking is actually allowed at the table! I well remember having to sit in silence through family meals because that was the way my parents had been brought up. My dad would have changed it but my mother, bless her soul, just could not accept such a radical change to one of her basic rules of good behaviour.

I think all my chi

I know how much I loved having meals with my family.

Whether it was with my parents and my brother and sisters Our family kinda into sports as well especially when they were in school after hours.

Or Hubby and our 3 sons. Our boys were into everything as well and made specially difficult at times to sit together but we did

Some of the stories around the dinner table were well.................

I can remember when my hubby was sitting at the dining room table (he was sat beside Mom,me beside

I thought I had posted here... strange.

Well, i will just try to remember what I wrote before - LOL

AWESOME blog/article Lisa! These are definitely things we need to look at-- you have inspired me as well :-) Kudos are all yours !!