What can we do to stem the tide?

Statistics show that our children are at risk.  They are at risk of  drug use, teenage pregnancy and prison.  Something must be done to stem the tide, but what?

Many children are at risk, more than we think.  Often we have parents who are too busy or too wrapped up in themselves to raise their child.  Children are hit with negative influence by video games, television, movies, peer pressure and more.  It's time for adults to take responsibility to reach out to a child and help them.

There are countless program dedicated to helping our children.  Big Brothers& Big Sisters, Boys & Girls Club, Kids Hope USA and Foster Parents all try to help at risk children.  But you don't have to be part of an organized program to help.  We can all quietly do our part.

The most person way is through mentoring.  Do you have a niece or nephew?  Start there.  Spend time with them and show them the positive paths to take.  If you have a child of your own, open your home to your child's friends and let them see what a loving environment is.  Plan outings with these children, take them to the museum, camping or om a picnic. 

For some of these children, just knowing there is an adult available to them that cares can make a world of difference.  But the biggest thing is to be trusted.  Sometimes your child may tell you something that you know you must tell his parents or other authorities.  Don't go behind the child's back.  Tell them up front that you have to report it and why.  Make sure that the child understands you have their best interests at heart.  That child will thank you eventually.

So look around your neighborhood and family for a child you can connect with and mentor.  Not only does this help the child, it helps you.  You will find yourself changed for the better too!