Posterior lovemaking certainly isn’t for everyone, but some men
and women can’t get enough. For the beginner, the practice may be a bit
intimidating, but partners can educate themselves about the ins and outs of
posterior play to make the activity as pleasurable and safe as possible.
Practicing proper rear, female organ and manhood
care before, during and after
posterior lovemaking is crucial, and the following information will help
couples learn how to do so.
Why the Behind?
Posterior lovemaking may be appealing to both men and women for
several reasons. Men may want to penetrate a posterior because it is tighter
than a female organ. They may also enjoy the somewhat taboo nature of the act.
Women may enjoy rear penetration for a couple reasons. First,
the nerve ending around the rear hole are very sensitive and some find
penetration stimulating. Second, there are sensitive areas between a woman’s
rectum and female organ that may create pleasure when pressure within the
rectum is placed upon them.
Some men enjoy being penetrated in the behind, and not just gay
men. The prostate gland is stimulated during posterior play for a man, and this
can be highly enjoyable. Plus, his posterior nerve endings are just as
sensitive as hers.
Is it Safe?
Posterior lovemaking can be safe, but special precautions are
required. This is primarily because the risk of spreading infections, both
female organ and socially-transmitted, are high with posterior play.
The transmission rates of human immunodeficiency virrus and HPV
are higher for posterior lovemaking than female organ lovemaking. That’s
because the rear hole and rectum are not naturally lubricated, so, even when a
product is used for extra lubrication, tears in and around the rear hole are
likely to occur. Broken skin gives viruses easy access to the body.
Women are more prone to female organ infections when posterior
lovemaking is involved in playtime because the rectum is full of bacteria,
since its primary function is to store feces. If a male organ or toy that has
been in her rectum is inserted into the female organ without being very
thoroughly cleaned or without a rubber change, she is prone to developing an
infection.
Another potential complication of regular posterior lovemaking
is the loosening of the posterior sphincter. This muscle allows a person to
hold feces in until the appropriate time to release. If it weakens, one’s
ability to “hold it” weakens, too.
Though rare, ample bleeding after posterior lovemaking could
indicate a hole in the colon, which requires an immediate trip to the hospital.
Steps to Take
1) Lube, lube, lube.
2) Wash the posterior area before and after lovemaking.
3) Wear a rubber.
4) Only use water-based lubricant if latex rubbers are used.
5) Relax – the receiving partner will incur fewer posterior
tears if he or she is relaxed upon insertion.
6) Change the rubber and wash the male organ before entering any
other orifice.
7) Know your partner’s lovemaking history and infection testing
status.
8) If on the receiving end, perform posterior Kegel
exercises to maintain sphincter muscle tone.
Taking care of the rear hole, female organ and male organ is
essential to safe and pleasurable posterior lovemaking. Another thing men can
do to look out for their male organs, along with practicing proper hygiene, is
to use a male organ health crème (health professionals
recommend Man1 Man Oil) to
promote good skin condition, ample circulation and nerve function. Applying
such a product after showering can keep the male organ pleasant to the eye and
touch. A crème with a combination of natural moisturizers such as Shea butter
and vitamin E is ideal for tag-teaming dry skin, both providing and sealing in
moisture.
Visit http://www.menshealthfirst.com for additional
information on most common male organ health issues, tips on improving organ
sensitivity and what to do to maintain a healthy manhood. John Dugan is a
professional writer who specializes in men's health issues and is an ongoing
contributing writer to numerous websites.