No matter how good a man's love life may be, he's always up for
better sensual activity; when it comes to sensual satisfaction, the sky's the
limit! There are numerous romantic tips a couple can use, but one area that
they may want to consider exploring is that of sensory control. Unlike some
exploratory sensual practices, such as BDM, a man doesn't need to worry about
how this might affect his male
organ health; it's more a matter of isolating sensory experiences during
sensual contact.
Going
beyond touch
Because sensual activity is so often
focused on physical sensation and stimulation, the sense that is most often
associated with the activity is that of touch. While there's no denying that
touch plays a vital role in sensual activity, spending some time focusing on
the other senses can add a new level to the experience.
One interesting way to incorporate
sensory control into one's romantic activities is to isolate and then
"eliminate" one of the senses. With one of the senses
temporarily "deadened," the other senses may become more heightened.
The novelty of engaging in sensual activity with one of the senses controlled
can transform the experience.
Here are a few tips for achieving this
form of sensory control.
- Use a
blindfold. Although there are other ways of
de-emphasizing sight, such as closing one's eyes, turning off all the lights or
using a sleep mask, a blindfold may be more fun for many couples. Its use
carries with it a kind of sensual thrill.
-
Incorporate earplugs. Some couples explore sensual activity
without sound by seeing what it's like if neither partner can talk, sigh, moan,
grunt, etc., and there is validity to this approach; however, there still will
be environmental sounds, such as bedsprings squeaking or a dog barking. Using
earplugs may not block out 100% of the sound, but it can help.
- Avoid
lip or tongue contact. While one wouldn't want to banish
kissing permanently from one's coupling, it's interesting to occasionally
engage in sensual activity with no "tasting" of the other partner's
lips, skin, tongue, privates, etc.
Alternatively, rather than banishing
senses, it can be beneficial to concentrate on heightening one of them. There
are many ways in which this can be accomplished, and partners shouldn't be afraid
to let their imaginations roam free when coming up with new things to try.
To help get started, here are a few
options one might consider:
-
Lighting makes a difference. Shake things up by altering one's usual
lighting patterns in bed. If a couple most often gets intimate in dim light,
try keeping all of the lights on. Alternatively, those who copulate in bright
light can explore how candlelit coupling makes them feel. Buying some red light
bulbs to stick into the lamps during sensual engagement can definitely alter
the experience. A black light or strobe light experience can be especially
interesting – although many are too sensitive to the strobe light for this to
be an option.
- Get
scented. Incorporate incense, patchouli, aromatic
candles, etc. into one's experience. Although certain scents, such as vanilla,
are said to be aphrodisiacal, each person is unique; partners should find out
what special scents work best for them.
- Try
new sounds. Many couples have special mood music,
but sometimes natural sounds – recordings of gentle rain, a waterfall, soft
breezes blowing through trees – can add a new level of sensuality. One can also
go in the opposite direction and try out recordings that capture the romantic
sounds of other couples.
- Get a
taste for it. Letting one's partner lick sugar, spice
or another favorite flavor off of one's body can be highly satisfying for both
partners.
Sensory control and exploration is one
route to better sensual activity. It is also a good idea for men to regularly
use a top-drawer male organ
health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil).
Unwanted manhood odor is definitely in need of sensory control, so a crème with
vitamin A, which fights odor-causing bacteria, can help. Dry, flaky skin can
also be a sensory turn-off, so applying a crème with moisturizers like Shea
butter and vitamin E will keep the tool hydrated and healthy.
Visit http://www.menshealthfirst.com for additional information on most common
manhood health issues, tips on improving member sensitivity and what to do to
maintain a healthy male organ. John Dugan is a professional writer who
specializes in men's health issues and is an ongoing contributing writer to
numerous websites.