If adult movies were to be believed, every man’s tool jumps to a
massive firmness at the slightest cause and is impervious to mood killers of
any sort. Here’s a little sensual tip that more women need to know: The manhood
is actually far more moody than one might think. True, when its owner practices
sensible male organ care, it’s
generally in a “can do” state – but that doesn’t mean certain mood killers
can’t cause his confident façade to falter.
What are some of these mood killers that
turn a raging firmness into a sleepy softy?
Infantilizing
the organ.
A guy’s member likes to be appreciated
for his manliness and virility. When the luscious woman he’s about to bring
pleasure to is talking about him, he wants her to use the appropriate language:
“massive,” “amazing” and “awe-inspiring” are adjectives that readily come to
mind that are much appreciated by a peppy member. “Cute,” “sweet” and
“adorable,” on the other hand, are not. Their use leads to the quick deflating
of a formerly swollen member.
Making
comparisons.
Guys tend to be competitive and like to
know that they have come out on top in any contest. This is especially true
when talking about a man’s bedtime performance and/or manhood. A sensuality tip
to always remember: It’s never a good idea to negatively compare what a man is
currently doing, or anything about his equipment, with another man’s
performance or endowment while engaged in sensual activity. (Talking about this
another time is fair game, but not in the heat of the moment.) It’s even risky
to make a positive comparison when a guy is hard at work; it may trigger a fear
that he has to keep performing at this level or lose in the “who’s the better
lover” contest with your past partners.
Waiting
too long.
It’s a general rule of thumb: If a
manhood is firm, it generally would like a release. Now, guys walk around with
firm tools all day and learn to live with it. However, if a woman is actively
rubbing a guy’s manhood with the intention of generating tumescence and then
disappears for 10 minutes, it creates a difficult situation: If the firmness
starts to diminish, should the guy keep stroking in order to keep it ready for
a return? He’s going to get nervous and anxious, worrying whether he will be
able to keep it standing at attention – and that can lead to a fast fade.
Being
too schedule-oriented.
It’s nice for a man to know that he’s
going to have a sensual encounter in the bedroom on Wednesday and Saturday at
11:15. He likes having something to look forward to. But he also likes a little
surprise, the occasional quickie on an off-night or getting it on in the
kitchen or the car or under the stars. Being too rigid can result in boredom
and/or resentment – neither of which is good for fulfilling sensual activity.
Odors.
Women don’t appreciate a man whose
breath reeks of garlic; neither do men like this in a woman. A slight sensual
musk scent can be attractive on a woman’s body, but sweat is another thing
altogether – as is an excessively strong perfume. The olfactory senses can be
very important to successful sensual encounters. When the nose is assaulted
with unpleasant sensations, the manhood reacts by losing interest.
A related sensuality tip: Men also need
to pay attention to odors and other health issues, including male organ health.
Using a first-class male organ
health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) helps to offset mood killers that he
may bring to the bed. For example, strong manhood odor is a big complaint of
many women. A crème loaded with vitamin A, which has potent anti-bacterial
properties, can help significantly. And one with natural moisturizers like Shea
butter and vitamin E can help take care of dry or flaky member skin or other
dermatological matters so that the equipment looks strong and appealing.
Visit http://www.menshealthfirst.com for additional information on most common
manhood health issues, tips on improving male organ sensitivity and what to do
to maintain a healthy member. John Dugan is a professional writer who
specializes in men's health issues and is an ongoing contributing writer to
numerous websites.