I have discovered the secret so that you never have to fail again... EVER.
I
have known this secret for a very long time. I discovered it by
accident.
It is with great hesitation that I offer to
you what I have uncovered.
This information will allow you to not ever fail
again...EVER.
Just imagine going through the rest of your life
knowing
you would never fail, EVER
So first I'd like you to ask
yourself....
"what would you attempt to do if you knew you couldn't
fail?"
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I like that one almost as much as HHCTB?
I even
have a bracelet with all those letters on it to constantly
remind me to have
a vision, to always be looking ahead.. planning
If you could do anything and I mean anything that
you wanted and you
knew all would work out GREAT!
What would you
do?
Anything from personal relationships to business...
ANYTHING.
Please stop for a moment and think about that question.
Perhaps
even taking the time to write it down.
This exercise may be a test of
your imagination but...
Knowing it would still be OK in the end, you still
hesitate.
That has to tell you something about
yourself.
Do you not care enough?
Do you not have enough
desire?
What would be the reason that you would hesitate to answer that
question?
Fear of Failure-Fear of Success... Could it be one
of those 2?
Both of these can be crippling.
Fear of Failure
Fear is a learned behavior. Fear is not a trait you
are born with. It is
something that you acquire. Your parents scold you when
you get to close
to the stairway. Oh, I may fall down.
Stay away from the stove. Oh, I may get
burned.
Those are things that we learn in our lives
everyday since we were very small.
Fear of Success
People don't plan enough to be successful. I had a
girlfriend who became
very successful in her marketing career. But her
husband told her there
was only room for 1 STAR in the family.
She did a 180 and within a few weeks she turned in
her resignation to the
company. What was it that made her choose her husband
over her career?
Fear of Failure or Fear of Success?
A bit of a side note... the marriage broke up after
a few years but not before
a couple of kids.
Susan Jeffers wrote the most wonderful book, "Feel
the Fear and DO it Anyway."
Fear is a learned trait.... feel the fear and do
it anyway.
Worry and quilt are both useless emotions, Your
wasting your time if you dwell
on either of them.
I promised to tell
you the secret of not ever failing again. I hope that by now
you have
discovered what I learned about failure a long time ago.
I never fail... EVER. Everything that I have done
in my life has been a leaning
process. Did I mess up? YOU BETCHA. Many
times. But not once did I
ever view them as failures.
So the secret
that I hesitate to tell you about not ever failing again, EVER
Is to never
start.... and you will never have to worry about failure again,
EVER