When you first breakup and you want to get your girlfriend back it's very easy to just focus on why you broke up. But simply dwelling on the reasons that brought about the split can only serve to keep negative emotions hanging around! You'll find more chance to get back your ex girlfriend if you concentrate on ways to discover your passion and re-create a connection with her instead of trying to fix the problems. In this article you will discover ways to win your girlfriend back with passionate and emotionally charged mini dates.

When things from the breakup have calmed down and you are able to make contact with her again in a friendly way, you may want to try and set up a new "first date". Something that nobody will tell you about one of the most important parts of this first date is that it needs to be emotionally fired up. We're not talking about going out to dinner or watching a movie together. That sort of date can feel almost boring and wouldn't really create the emotional bonding that we are looking for.

You ideally want to have a lot of short but highly emotionally charged "mini dates". If you just went out for dinner and a movie you would be missing out on a sociological principal that has been proved that, emotionally charged experiences equals bonding. Or in your case a re-bonding. When trying to get your ex girlfriend back you need to stir each others feelings and make it a memorable time. These short exciting mini dates will be just enough to get the passion growing again.

By mini dates I don't exactly mean dates, but more exciting experiences. Maybe something that is equal to a roller coaster ride or something that would get your adrenaline pumping. Simply by sharing these moments you will start to build a renewed bond with each other.

Are you starting to understand the differences between the standard "run of the mill" dinner and a movie date and a date that has passion and fires up you up emotionally?

With the longer slightly "going through the motions" dates together you will be more likely to end up analyzing just what made you breakup in the first place. But with the shorter more exciting experiences you will enjoy "the now" and start to discover your passion again. If you want to get back your ex girlfriend you need to understand the power of having these emotionally charged dates.

Trying to get back your ex girlfriend is emotionally draining and anything that can take your mind away from focusing on what brought about the split can only be a plus. If a relationship has passion, even the biggest problems may feel small and seemingly repair themselves. But without passion, the smallest problem can feel like you are climbing a mountain. Discover your Passion and create a bonding and you will soon see that you can get your ex girlfriend back.