What kinds of things should co-parents be consistent about across home?

by James Moore Child Support Consultant

Many people think that divorce means that they won't have to deal with their ex, but this isn't how it works when you share children.

Throughout the divorce and the time after, the co-parents will have to do what's best for the children.

While it's not feasible to think that both homes will have exactly the same rules, consider working with your co-parent on these major rules.

Set expectations for schoolwork Education is a primary focus for many parents, so helping the child to thrive in this area is important.

Working across both homes to make this happen could mean that each parent requires that homework is done daily.

Try to keep a consistent schedule Consistent schedules can also help children to feel their best.

For young children, having the same bedtime at both homes might be beneficial.

Forbid badmouthing Neither parent should badmouth the other one.

The children should be encouraged to share their feelings and needs.

Both parents must help the children feel comfortable with the situation.

The parenting plan is the basis of the co-parenting agreement.

It's possible to modify the parenting plan in the future if the need arises.

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