Self-Pleasuring and Roommates: Working It Out
by John Dugan OwnerFor
the vast majority of men, self-pleasuring is a part of their lives. They may
not self-stimulate every day or every week, but they like to know that when
they have “the itch” they can take care of it. Unfortunately, in cases when
guys are roommates, this can sometimes create a problem. Working out how
roommates feel about and handle self-pleasuring is essential so the parties
involved can continue to incorporate self-pleasuring as part of their male organ care routines.
Not
always a problem
Of
course, just because two dudes are roommates doesn’t mean that self-gratifying
is going to be a problem. For example, if each guy has his own room – and
therefore some guaranteed privacy – the issue may not be so important. Simply
locking the door while self-indulging may be all that is required. If the doors
don’t lock, they can set up a rule about knocking and waiting to be invited in
instead.
This
assumes, of course, that the roommates in question would find it a problem to
walk in on one another self-fondling. Some guys don’t; they accept that they’re
both going to self-gratify and don’t care if they’re “caught in the act.”
Ways
to deal with it
But
not all guys are so comfortable with their own self-pleasuring or with
witnessing another guy in the act. And very often, especially in college or in
big cities where rents are astronomical, two guys may be sharing one room,
rather than having their own separate spaces with doors and locks.
In
such situations, it pays to set up some ground rules. Even though it may be
uncomfortable, one of the roommates needs to say, “Let’s talk about what we
want to do when one of us wants to self-pleasure.” Although this can be
difficult, it often can be rewarding. Some guys (though not all) find it really
helps to talk openly about self-stimulating with someone else who acknowledges
that they do the same thing.
Here
are some of the basic options guys can consider:
- They’re
going to be open and honest about it. Both guys acknowledge that they like to self-gratify and each one
will do so whenever he feels like it. If watching adult videos on the computer
is part of a guy’s session, they can set up rules about using headphones or
earbuds to keep things quiet. And if one roommate needs to concentrate and
finds the other’s self-pleasuring distracting, he’ll let his roomie know so he
can delay his gratification till later.
- They’ll
utilize the bathroom (and lock the door). This provides sufficient privacy for both roommates, but this
arrangement may need some refinement. For example, if a roommate is into really
long, extended self-pleasuring sessions, a time limit may need to be set or he
may need to accept that he will be interrupted if nature calls for the other
guy.
- They’ll
put a sock on the door – or arrange some other signal
that says “I’m self-fondling.” If one guy arrives home and sees the
signal, he’ll know to delay his arrival so that he doesn’t interrupt. It’s
probably a good idea to then send a text asking to know when the coast is clear
– in case the roommate forgets to take down the signal when he’s through.
- They’ll
be quiet. For some guys, the easiest way is just to
self-pleasure after the lights go out and hope that they’re quiet enough that
the other guy doesn’t notice. This has worked for countless roomies throughout
the ages.
Whatever
arrangement roommates come to regarding self-pleasuring, they need to make sure
that their fondness for this enjoyable activity doesn’t lead to them being too
rough. Guys can help protect their members from aggressive handling by daily
use of a superior male organ health crème (health professionals recommend
Man1 Man Oil, which is
clinically proven mild and safe for skin). Select a crème with moisturizing
ingredients like Shea butter and vitamin E to protect the skin. The crème
should also include L-carnitine, which is neuroprotective and helps restore
lost sensation due to rough use.
Visit http://www.menshealthfirst.com for additional information on most common male organ health
issues, tips on improving manhood sensitivity and what to do to maintain a
healthy member. John Dugan is a professional writer who specializes in men's
health issues and is an ongoing contributing writer to numerous websites.
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