How Does Self-pleasure Affect Sensual Drive?
by John Dugan OwnerIt’s almost like the age-old chicken and egg conversation –
which came first? Was it drive first and then self-pleasure, or did a little
touching of one’s self lead to an extra order of intimate drive? Thankfully,
society has moved past its more colorful self-pleasure side effects such as
hairy hands and going blind and is now focused on the physiological and psychological
effects of choking the chicken. Some men worry that scheduling regular “self-care”
time will make a man stop wanting to get horizontal with a lover. After all,
who knows how to make a man reach the point of no return better than he does
himself? Put all these worries aside; there’s a lot more evidence that it helps
drive and the desire for (and the performance that follows) partnered intimacy
than may be believed.
Self-pleasure won’t negatively impact desire
Worried that too much self-pleasure will cause the urge to get
it on to wilt? Worry no more! Going solo has a very small impact on androgen
levels, the intimate hormones that largely control drive. In fact, the stress relief
a regular wank provides could actually help. Intimate release floods the body
with oxytocin, the feel-good hormone also known as the love hormone, and it
actually helps prime the pump sensually and keeps drive strong for a partnered
session.
Self-pleasure leads to better intimacy
Sure, no one can do it just like you do, but knowing what you
like and what feelings are possible can make you a better lover. It can also
improve communication and satisfaction when you play a little show-and-tell
with your partner. Show them what works for you and vice versa.
Self-pleasure also helps a man understand his refractory period,
or the period of time it takes a man to get stimulated again after intimate
release. This can vary widely depending on a man’s individual health, diet,
level of daily physical activity, and stress levels.
It’s also good to note that self-pleasure doesn’t always have to
result in intimate release. In fact, starting a little solo time up and not
finishing can not only help a man save up his sensual energy but also teach him
how to delay and control seed release when intimate with a partner.
Self-pleasure promotes confidence and positive self-image
Unlike the feelings about self-pleasuring that pervaded the many
eons that preceded this era, self-pleasure is no longer something to feel ashamed
of or guilty about. It’s no longer the dirty little secret that everyone is keeping.
In fact, surveys are showing a positive correlation between self-pleasure and
good, healthy, pleasurable experiences with partnered intimacy as a result. Being
in touch with one’s body and how to derive pleasure from it makes men more confident
in the sack and beyond.
Self-pleasure in a nutshell (pun
intended)
A recent report on pleasure
says 84 percent of Americans have some level of experience with charming their one-eyed
snake, meaning pretty much everyone is doing it. It’s a healthy behavior that
not only keeps drive levels steady but also provides benefits in other areas of
a man’s sensual and physical health and well-being.
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