Effect of Positive Discipline for Children
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Discipline allows children to learn to control their actions according to their
understanding of right and wrong. It helps them to behave well because they
want to, not because they are scared of punishment. Dr. Montessori called this
"Internal Discipline". Discipline does not mean to punish the child,
it means to teach children the importance of good decision choices, values, and
morals. With positive discipline, a child learns to choose acceptable behavior
because they want to do the right thing, not because of fear of punishment.
Often
parents use punishment to prevent their children from doing wrong things and it
involves a painful or unkind technique to stop him. Punishment gives
the following results.
• Encourages children to hide their negative behavior from parents
• Lowers self-esteem self-esteem.
• Teaches children that violence solves their problems.
• Not effective any age children, including teenagers.
Whereas positive discipline gives outcomes:
• Allows children to learn self-discipline
• Builds children's confidence and self-worth
• Good and effective for teenagers too
• Children understand that it’s a great way to solve problems
Parents
need to focus on a few major areas to discipline
their child, providing them the needed attention, setting limits and giving
sufficient time for training. Parents should adjust their attitude when it
comes to positive discipline for a child:
Care and Attention is vital:
We all know that children love to be pampered and seek attention from their parents. Life is busy and hectic for everyone and getting extra time is very difficult. But it's also important to invest the required time for a better relationship with children and help them improve actions. When you provide children with a positive and proactive attention, they will become more obliging and will not try to find out the attention in undesirable or negative ways.
Training time and support:
You need
to take some time out every day for training your children. Discipline is all
about teaching and learning. The most
effective way of positive discipline for children is to help them to make
better choices. Try to explain your reasoning to your child. Parents should encourage
and praise their child when they make correct choices. Appreciate their good work and instil the
habit of saying thank you and sorry in your child.
Set restrictions:
Children
behave better when they have a set limitations and understand their restrictions.
Always follow through when setting limits. It’s ok if they cry or throw a
tantrum. Don’t give in to this behaviour or they will quickly learn if they cry
enough you will give in. Focus on essential factors for your family. Parents
must be clear about the basic regulations and what is the consequence when
anyone ignores the rule. Ensure that all the members of your family are aware
of the consequences in advance.
Make sure,
your rules are such that do not burden your child. Parents should make just one
demand at a time. Children fail to recall or become confused when provided too
many orders. Give some time to a child to clean his hands before you direct him
to organize the table. Once the table is set, then instruct him to focus on the
food and finish it.
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