Are You Afraid Of Networking Events? How To Overcome It?

Networking can be a bit intimidating. It doesn't matter if an extrovert, introvert or ambivert (a mix of both). Networking means putting yourself out to the world. It's being vulnerable in a setting that's not always easy. It's a matter of hoping for the best, and If you're as hard on yourself as I am, you're anticipating the worst.

It took me quite a while to get comfortable with social media. It's a long time, not just months. While I went to college the term "networking" would make me sweat. I'd be anxious throughout the weeks leading up to an event that was scheduled for the following week. I would stumble when making introductions, laugh out loud when conversations slowed down and, in the end, go to the back of the room, or go out earlier if I "couldn't" find someone to talk to.

It's crucial to feel uncomfortable. Learn from situations that scare you. Well, at least I would like to believe that way. Over time, the situations aren't so daunting. You get into a routine and a routine one that lets you excel in networking events, without the looming anxiety and time spent second-guessing your own abilities.

However, it's easier to say than done, isn't it? I could sit at the back that is my computer and say that it's as easy as 1-2-3 for you to conquer that fear about networking but it's just not. There's nothing worth doing as easily. Therefore, instead, I'd like to offer the steps to ease into Women Networking events, and hopefully lessen the fear that is associated with it.

Start with a small amount

Conferences and networking events such as these can be daunting. Therefore, I'd like to encourage you to take it slow. There are times when jumping in head first is the best way to go, like cutting off a bandage that has been left on for an entire week. Networking isn't always one of those scenarios. Begin by using social media to network. You're connecting with new friends through Instagram constantly. What better way to move to the next level and write them a message? If you're uncomfortable slipping into their DMs then write your email to them instead. Introduce yourself, and swiftly make it clear. Why do you want to email them, and why it should be worthwhile?

Connecting (and as well, preparing)

Do your research. Don't go in blind. If there's a guest list available for the event that you're going to or hashtags for the event you're preparing for, take advantage of it! Use the time before the conference to have an overview of who will be in attendance.

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If you do happen to meet someone you'd like to get to know, be sure to have some conversation starters in your arsenal. People are known to be a bit sexy when they speak about themselves So is there a better method to take some stress off your shoulders than to give them the chance to talk on the stage? In a metaphorical sense, of course.

You'll also feel more confident and slightly more relaxed being aware of the people are (hopefully) likely to be seen during the gathering.