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Social Networking. . . It's the way the 21st century communicates today.  Want to know what it really means? Social networking is the grouping of
individuals into specific groups, like small rural communities or a
neighborhood subdivision, if you will. Although social networking is
possible in person, especially in the workplace, universities, and high
schools, it is most popular online.
When it comes to
online social networking, websites are commonly used. These websites are
known as social sites. Social networking websites function like an
online community of internet users. Depending on the website in
question, many of these online community members share common interests
in hobbies, religion, or politics. Once you are granted access to a
social networking website you can begin to socialize. This socialization
may include reading the profile pages of other members and possibly
even contacting them. 
The friends that you
can make are just one of the many benefits to social networking online.
Another one of those benefits includes diversity because the internet
gives individuals from all around the world access to social networking
sites. This means that although you are in the United States, you could
develop an online friendship with someone in Denmark or India. Not only
will you make new friends, but you just might learn a thing or two about
new cultures or new languages and learning is always a good thing.
As mentioned, social
networking often involves grouping specific individuals or organizations
together. While there are a number of social networking websites that
focus on particular interests, there are others that do not. The
websites without a main focus are often referred to as "traditional"
social networking websites and usually have open memberships. This means
that anyone can become a member, no matter what their hobbies, beliefs,
or views are. However, once you are inside this online community, you
can begin to create your own network of friends and eliminate members
that do not share common interests or goals.
As I'm sure you're
aware, there are dangers associated with social networking
including data theft and viruses, which are on the rise. The most
prevalent danger though often involves online predators or individuals
who claim to be someone that they are not. Although danger does exist
with networking
online, it also exists in the real world, too. Just like you're advised
when meeting strangers at clubs and bars, school, or work -- you are
also advised to proceed with caution online.
By being aware of your
cyber-surroundings and who you are talking to, you should be able to
safely enjoy social networking online. It will take many phone
conversations to get to know someone, but you really won't be able to
make a clear judgment until you can meet each other in person.  Just use
common sense and listen to your inner voice; it will tell you when
something doesn't feel right about the online conversations taking
place.
Once you are well
informed and comfortable with your findings, you can begin your search
from hundreds of networking communities to join. This can easily be done
by performing a standard internet search. Your search will likely
return a number of results, including MySpace, FriendWise, FriendFinder,
Yahoo! 360, Facebook, Orkut, and Classmates. 
Nov 17th 2010 08:20