One can scarcely find a man who doesn’t enjoy receiving oral
sensual activity. For many men, the idea of being deep throated is intensely
thrilling, but they must understand that, from the partner’s end, this is no
easy accomplishment. A man can simply imagine trying to shove a sausage down
his throat and think about how that would feel. And many partners are
interested in providing this service to a man, but fears of gagging, extreme
discomfort and even becoming ill at a most inopportune time ward off their
efforts. Along with maintaining appropriate manhood
health in order to keep the tool
appealing, men can also share the following tips with interested lovers to help
them move closer to the experience they both crave.
Training
Partners interested in deep throating shouldn’t assume they can
just go for it. That’s because nearly everyone has a gag reflex, though the
intensity thereof varies from person to person. For most people, the reflex is
stimulated when the back of the throat is touched. One of the most important
things a person can do to facilitate deep throating is to train the gag reflex
to relax.
Training consists of gradually stimulating the gag reflex, being
conscious to take a breath before stimulating it and to keep the throat as
relaxed as possible. It’s also important to remain mentally relaxed. No
pressure; take it slow, and back off if one needs.
A partner can choose to train with an actual male organ, a
replica or a combination. It’s good to have a toy around so a person can train
whenever he or she wishes; the more one practices dulling the gag reflex, the
more likely it is to respond as desired. Hold the male organ or toy on the
tongue, right at one’s comfort zone to start. Then, slowly move it down, just
past the comfort zone and hold. Finally, move it slowly so that it gently
contacts the back of the throat, and hold for a few seconds. After doing this
several times, a person may find that he or she can hold it there longer, and
eventually push down deeper.
Preparation
Along with being relaxed physically and mentally, it’s a good
idea to use lube. Edible lubes are on the market for use on either replicas or
male organs. It may also be possible to provide sufficient lubrication with
one’s saliva. When practicing on a man, this can be particularly enjoyable for
him; spend some time before inserting him into one’s mouth licking his shaft,
wrapping one’s lips around the base and sliding up, etc. Get it nice and wet
before inserting.
Positions
There is a curve between the mouth and throat, one that makes
deep throating difficult in many positions. Optimal positions are those in
which the giver’s head is tilted back, bringing the mouth and throat into
alignment.
It’s also important to think of the position of the hard male
organ in relation to the giver’s mouth and throat. Generally, the following
positions are best:
- The giver can lie on his or her back with the head dangling a
bit off the side of a bed. The receiver stands behind the partner’s head.
Partners should discuss the importance of control beforehand. It’s a good idea,
particularly when first learning, for the giver to have a good amount of
control over the recipient’s thrusting. The giver can place his or her hands on
the receiver’s rear or hips to control his movements.
- In 69 position with the giver on top, he or she should stay
low and close to the recipient’s body with the head tilted back. If there is a
big height difference, the deep throater may not be able to receive oral
stimulation from the recipient. He or she may choose to kneel with legs to one
side of the partner’s body instead of straddling if receiving mutual oral is
not desired or possible.
- The giver can lie on his or her stomach on a bed with torso
slightly propped up, depending on the partner’s height, while the partner
stands in front of the giver. If the giver is using his or her elbows to be
propped up, then the receiver will have total control; this should be
considered.
Along with sharing valuable oral sensual activity tips with
one’s lover, a man owes it to his partner to keep his male organ in peak
condition, both in form and function. Using a quality male organ health crème (health professionals
recommend Man1 Man Oil) will
keep his skin smooth, soft and inviting to a lover’s mouth. Also, a crème with
vitamin A will help stave off unwanted odors, as this vitamin has anti-bacterial
properties. If a man’s lover does him the favor of deep throating, the least he
can do is make what he’s got palatable.
Visit http://www.menshealthfirst.com for additional
information on most common male organ health issues, tips on improving organ
sensitivity and what to do to maintain a healthy manhood. John Dugan is a
professional writer who specializes in men's health issues and is an ongoing
contributing writer to numerous websites.