Self-pleasuring is a highly personal process, and whatever works
for a man is generally the best way to go. However, there’s always something
new to learn, and it may behoove a man to consider tips and tricks for
amplifying his pleasure. On the other hand, there are certain
self-gratification methods that can impede one’s lovemaking life, and these are
worth avoiding for most men. Since frequent use is important for male organ health, keeping
self-pleasuring enjoyable without compromising bedroom performance with a
partner is imperative. The following tips will help.
1)
Beware of “unusual sensations.” If a man self-pleasures primarily by
using stimulation that is very different from anything he’d experience with a
sensual partner – for instance, vacuum hoses, Jacuzzi jets or a chokehold grip
– then he may not be able to enjoy lovemaking with a partner as much as he
could, or even at all.
When the male organ is repeatedly
subjected to these “unusual sensations” to bring about release, it can become
trained to only respond to such sensations. That means a partner’s touch, mouth
and body may not be able to invoke pleasure, firmness and seed from the
otherwise-trained male organ. This can create significant relationship
problems, along with hurting a man’s self-esteem.
2) Try
different techniques. Men generally have their preferred grip
and rhythmic patterns down by the time they enter adulthood, but why not try
something new? Some alternative methods men may not have considered include:
- Lubing up the palm and rubbing the tip
against it
- Focusing on the base of the male organ
- Edging – bringing oneself to the brink
of release, then stopping, then starting again, and so on three or four times
before allowing release
- Tugging gently on the balls just
before and during release
These different sensations may lead to a
different level of pleasure – well worth the experiment!
3) Take
it easy with the hardcore visuals. Some men find, upon reflection, that the
videos and pictures they use when cranking may have escalated on the hardcore
factor over time. If a man relies solely on such materials, he is training his
male organ to respond sensually to such things. When it comes to actual partner
lovemaking, he isn’t likely to recreate the scenarios in extreme videos and
images, and therefore may find himself incapable of full sensual pleasure with
a person in the flesh.
4) Try
some toys. Sensual toys certainly aren’t just for
women. Some men enjoy posterior stimulation and would benefit from a male organ
replica, vibrator or beads. Other men may prefer to simulate a female organ
with a purchased toy like the fleshlight; others may want to take a DIY
approach. Here are a few homemade options:
- Put barrier protection inside a
cardboard toilet paper or paper towel tube.
- Wet two sponges in warm water and fit
them into a cup.
- Fill a plastic baggie with lube and
stick it between couch cushions.
- Roll down the cuff of a sock, put a
medical glove inside it, fill the glove with lube and go to town.
Toys like these can give men a new
experience and are easy to make with things that are lying around the house.
5) Use
lube. Some men love the dry rub – and this can
be fine for men who produce ample natural lubrication. But for most, additional
lubrication is key to preventing dry, chafed and sore manhood skin. This can
result even from self-pleasuring with lubrication, though. Along with using
lube, men can apply a moisturizer to their members after showering so that
their skin is going into the session thoroughly hydrated. A male organ health crème (health
professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) is an ideal option for men in need of
a boost in the skin condition department.
Visit http://www.menshealthfirst.com
for additional information on most common male organ health issues, tips on
improving organ sensitivity and what to do to maintain a healthy member. John
Dugan is a professional writer who specializes in men's health issues and is an
ongoing contributing writer to numerous websites.