A
good intimate like is important for male
organ health, and some men like to think they have the best physical love ever
all the time. This probably isn’t the case, particularly not if a man thinks he
has some “secret key” that unlocks any partner’s door to infinite pleasure. Few
things can’t be improved upon, and better lovemaking comes first with the
realization that there’s always something new to learn. Men looking to improve
their romantic lives, and the relationships they have with partners, should
consider the following lovemaking tips.
Check
the ego.
First,
a man needs to get rid of the idea that he knows it all. This assumption can
lead him away from actually asking partners what they want, how they feel, etc.
It’s not a sign of insecurity or ignorance to ask what a partner wants, feels,
likes and loathes. Such communication can only make a man a better lover and
will likely improve the sensual experience for both partners involved.
Another
component of the ego check involves a man not pressuring himself to last
forever, to bring about a female partner’s release in a short period of time or
to think that he should absolutely be able to make her finish internally. These
things don’t always happen (actually, they usually don’t),
and it’s not a strike against a man’s physical worth.
Get
into pre-play.
Do
this for a couple of reasons. First, and most obviously, a female partner may
take longer to get turned on and to approach release than a man. Pre-play is
clearly beneficial in the sense of balancing things out a bit better between
partners.
But
pre-play can be great for men, too. This gives them a chance to explore their
partners with more than just their male organs. And, while pre-play may involve
some female organ contact, it can also include contact with the rest of the
woman’s body, particularly areas she tells a man she wants engaged with.
Finally,
a man can discover ways he likes being touched that don’t necessarily involve
his favorite organ during a pre-play session. Common erogenous zones include
the earlobes and nipples. Pre-play can make the whole encounter, and the
lovemaking that follows in particular, more enjoyable.
Strengthen
the lovemaking muscles.
There
are many muscles involved in lovemaking. A man can strengthen his glutes,
abdominals, quads, thighs and arms to assist in thrusting and stamina. Kegels
are also great for tumescence strength and control – they work the muscles that
help maintain firmness.
Strengthen
the heart.
Cardiovascular
exercise is also important to sensual health, not only for increasing stamina
but for promoting healthy circulation to the male organ. Tumescence happens
when blood engorges the male organ and, without good blood flow, firmness can
grow weak or even cease altogether.
Quit
comparing.
Many
men use stimulating visual aids, which is fine, but it can lead to the unfortunate
tendency of comparing both their own bodies and those of their partners to
unrealistic and unnatural images they see in their favorite videos or photos.
And it’s not only things like male and female organ appearance, male organ
length and cup size that a man might compare; he may expect tons of seed from
himself and a constant stream of squirting from his partner. Men should learn
instead to enjoy their own and their partners’ bodies exactly how they are, in
all their uniqueness and naturalness, as well as the individualized ways in
which each body responds to sensual stimulation. Get rid of cookie cutter ideas
about what bodies do and how they “should” look.
Take
good care of your male organ.
In
addition to proper hygiene (an obvious must), men should consider supplementing
their male organ care regimens with a male
organ health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man
Oil). Ingredients like
alpha lipoic acid and acetyl L-carnitine support cell and nerve health,
assisting in the maintenance of sensitivity levels. Vitamin A is also an
important ingredient to look out for, as it helps protect against infection and
keeps odors at bay.
Visit http://www.menshealthfirst.com for additional information on most common male organ health issues, tips
on improving organ sensitivity and what to do to maintain a healthy member.
John Dugan is a professional writer who specializes in men's health issues and
is an ongoing contributing writer to numerous websites.