Hanging
out in the locker room, men come to get a better understanding of where they
stand in relation to other men, at least in terms of male organ size. (If a man
cares to risk staring a bit, he may also be able to determine some surface
indications of other men's male
organ health as well.)
Since many men place an inordinate amount of importance on the size of their
tools, those men who are growers rather than showers often feel a sense of
inadequacy when displaying their wares in the changing room.
Growers
vs. Showers
What
exactly are growers and showers? Growers are men whose members tend to grow
substantially from their soft state to their tumescent state. For example, a
man whose organ is perhaps three inches "at rest" may grow to six
inches when firm, thereby doubling in length.
Showers
(pronounced to rhyme with growers) are men for whom there is less difference in
size between the soft and firm states. One example would be a man whose tool is
five inches when soft and six when tumescent.
In
both of the above examples, each man possesses a member that is a healthy six
inches when primed for action; however, if the organs of the two men were
compared while soft, the first organ would look considerably smaller than the
second.
Unfair
Comparisons
Men
tend to be fairly soft when in the locker room. That's not to say that many
men, gay or straight, don't find it stimulating to be around other bare men,
but rather that most men feel self-conscious if they sport a firm member around
other men and so try to keep this from happening.
As
a result, men at the gym are most often sneaking peeks at other tools that are
soft, and consequently growers tend to get the short end of the stick, so to
speak, when making comparisons with showers. When a man has a tool that is especially
diminutive when soft (even if monstrous when hard), he may feel inadequate,
ashamed or embarrassed – especially if he is in the presence of showers who are
endowed beyond average.
Growers
sometimes take steps to handle this situation, such as:
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Hiding the hot dog. Some men make sure that their tools are
exposed for as short a time as possible. They may wrap a towel around their
waists before removing their underwear. If the bathing area is communal,
growers may face the wall away from other men as long as possible, or may opt
to shower at home instead.
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Firming up. Another alternative that may be employed is attaining a state of
excitement or semi-excitement, often by visiting a bathroom stall and engaging
in a little stroking. If a man does not care whether he is seen sporting a
definite tumescence, this is easily achieved. It may be more difficult to
persuade the member into a state of semi-firmness, which adds length without
becoming obviously tumescent.
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Owning up. The best solution, of course, is for a man to accept the size of
his manhood while soft and to realize that it is natural for there to be
variation in tool size just as there is natural variation in height, hair
color, etc. Men should appreciate their members just as they are – and should
feel comfortable proudly displaying them in the proper setting (such as the
locker room) if they feel the desire to.
Rather
than worrying about male organ size, men need to pay more attention to the
health of their members. Regular use of a nourishing male organ health cream (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) can provide a boost in this area. Look
for a cream that contains alpha lipoic acid, a powerful antioxidant that helps
manhood cells avoid early on aging and
keeps away the wrinkled look that many tools acquire. Another beneficial
ingredient is acetyl L-carnitine, which may restore sensitivity lost due to
over-aggressive handling during sensual activity (solo or partner-based).
Visit
http://www.menshealthfirst.com for additional information on most
common male organ health issues, tips on improving manhood sensitivity, and
what to do to maintain a healthy member. John Dugan is a professional writer
who specializes in men's health issues and is an ongoing contributing writer to
numerous websites.