Why do we say hurtful things to one another?

Hurt People Will Hurt People. When People Are Hurting All They Can Think About Is Getting Even, So They Will Say Hurtful Things.
If People Should Keep In Mind That Words Are Not Wind And Cannot Be Taken Back Then They Will Think Before Speaking.

when we're angry we don't think before we speak.

i think that is because the person can not be quiet at that time ,after he saying the hurtful things ,he also feel bad .

I want to know too. we hurt each other. and keep away from each other.

Usually, people say the most hurtful things to the people who are closest to them. However, the best advice is just to stay quiet until you have your emotions in check and have had time to think about the situation.

When I was in my 20's, I said something to my mother that hurt her deeply. But the funny thing is, it hurt me too. I was careless and loose with my tongue. I have since learned to walk away until I have calmed down. I knew then that I did not want to carelessly hurt anyone like tha

We say hateful things to each other because of lack of mutual understanding between each other. Also, everyone should respect each other feelings and must judge their words before saying anything to someone.

I think people say hurtful things when they angry and upset because they feel like that, they wont the other person to feel the as them.

We say hateful things to each other because we don't care about other peoples feelings. We are very selfish and unconcerned about what our words do to others. Just stop and think for a moment: "how would YOU feel if someone said what you are thinking to you?"

Due to our failures we hurt others.We held others responsible for our shortcomings ! Its very shameful!

it is mainly because of 2 reason
1)because w feel unsecured like if w don't argue then opponent may think that this guy is poor by nature,and thus he/she can be easily torture ,here makes the difference between common man and saint(holy person).
because saint feels like i am a god and u r also god.
2)saint do have their remote control(control over mind)in their hand where as common people easily give their remote control 2 anybody

Unfortunately we tend to react to situations instead of cool down and respond.

to make ourselves feel better. Seeing ppl happier than you makes you jealous and then you lash out.

because we are weak, we want to hurt others... we have to.

Hurtful words are usually said in anger,So the intent is to hurt you mentally: Is a hit first type of action.

I believe that when a person purposely say things to hurt another. They are really insecure about themselves. I know everyone is guilty of this at one point of another. the best thing to do is reevaluate why you felt the need to say mean things in the first place.

May b because Love is not in the air...

Because we can not love so much... not to do that...

Normally we say hurtful things to another when we are angry. We should control our anger.

when we're angry we don't think before we speak.

Also as humans we sometimes tend to feel or think that saying or making cruel commits about one another will somehow make us feel Superior in some way.