How do you influence people?

I explain all, with simple words, for understand me... and for see i have not interesse bad...and i like to have friends too...and be friends...

@Mike,,,,,My 2 Lips are certainly sealed on this one................ROFL

Yes, yes, yes I know this but...I guess you out smarted me again not fare! I can't go into it without you making me look like a dirt ball. That beautiful yellow dress you have and know it's a bit proactive...you know you shouldn't wear it certain places but you like the attention for the moment which is OK but you turn and smile at the ugly dude with the stick (OK, last time I promise)...what's that?

Never ever done that LOL......Ok so let me take this a step further, I have boundaries, anyone that over steps those boundaries whether I stand to gain from them or not, I will send them on their marching lane in a flash and I will not even second think it...My boundaries consist of : I give respect and I expect the same back, simple as that - Money will never make me move out of my boundaries for gain sake, I rather go without and keep my boundaries.

Van, 10 moves ahead, I remembered...anything you say makes sense so far...but I like to explore genius so tell me this - have you ever used your charms on people you've weren't so charmed with or didn't care about to get something accomplished? Maybe you knew that you weren't going to see them ever again...

I chose to rather use the word motivate instead of influence people around me with my positive attitude and zest for life and always try to make everyone remember that we all have special qualities and all have a purpose and that everyone is just awesome in the right frame of company.........if that makes sense LOL