Do you spy your partner or spouse?

I would never spy on my wife.I feel having trust in your partner is one of the biggest elements in a relationship.If you don't/can't trust your wife/partner then I feel you shouldn't be in a relationship with that person.

I Am not marry now but when I was I never spied on my husband...if you don't trust your partner what is the use living together?.

Spying, the word refers to looking for something bad if you feel that there is something bad going on then...one needs to do less spying and more talking or packing. If I have to spy then I'm out. Not to say that with one person right now but just putting my pennies in.

why must u should do that ? :-/

Never should one do that ! Once accepted is the Great Acceptance! TRUST is the main wheel for running the cycle of Life! I feel doubts can be clarified and if it is proved a decision has to be taken. But spying is not the way I suppose !

Why not Oswald?Isn't it the platform where we all speak truth? Of course the choice is open! I met people who answered like Terry! answer is 'no' or 'yes'! .I guess apart from that I also followed that many questions go unanswered here.( My question falls under the category of 'relationship')!!! if I am wrong please correct me.

Why do you want to know? I mean to say, do you think anyone will admit it if he/she really does spy on his/her partner?

Juyee, after 40+ years of marriage, we automatically know what the other one is doing. :)

No, I trust my wife and if I am watching her it is because I want to. I treat her like a "Queen" and in return I get treated like a "King."

Our 3 rules in our marriage are:
1. I don't say, "You always ...."
2. I don't say, "You never ...."
3. If it won't matter 1 week from now, we don't discuss it at all.

We have a GREAT marriage.