Your Attitude Makes the Difference
There is an attitude to everything, trying and doing are no exceptions. Why try when you can actually set out to achieve? They say there is no harm in trial, so everybody wants to try; very few set out to achieve. There is one straight path for setting out to do, that's through conscious preparation preceded by willingness and applied effort to really achieve. It’s easy to try but difficult to do, even though both aim at the same goal, attitude makes the difference between success and failure.
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1. A trier’s attitude: it’s not what you do or say but how you do it or say it. The attitude of a trier is way different from that of one who sets out to achieve. Aside preparation and ability the psychological approach of being a trier could upset the goal. People shed most of the criticism when they bear the trier’s tag. Trying is a courteous way of excusing unpreparedness. A trier is a doer who sets out to achieve a goal but thinks he will fail. A trier is a good starter but never gets to finish what he started, not for inability or any other thing but from the unset they have excused their unpreparedness and by virtue of that leverage, they can opt out when it gets difficult as they earlier expected it would. Trying is not just an attitude; it can become a standard and a bad one at that. You basically don’t set your standard, they kind of work in alignment with the habits and character of your person-hood. If one’s standard is that of a trier, they basically go about everything with the same attitude.
2. 2. A doer’s attitude: a doer is one who sets to achieve a thing and acknowledges that he may fail, considering the challenges that he may face but doesn’t excuse himself from preparing for those challenges, resolving to pull through. A doer is a trier with an intention to achieve his aim, an intention backed with the right preparation and attitude.
It’s not what you do but how you do it, attitude makes the difference between good and excellent.
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Comments (20)
Chidi E.5
Writer, Blogger
@Robert that's true, if a project is a bad idea from the start and you commit more people as well as resources and effort to it, you may succeed in extending the eventual failure but on the other hand end up increasing the weight of the fall as well as the loss it will amass.
Dexter Williams5
Network and Internet Marketer
You are right, attitude is everything.
Dr Don Yates Sr PhD17
Entrepreneur, Mentor, Advisor, CEO
Love it, got my vote, opps where to vote
Magdalena M.4
online marketer
thanks for sharing.
Dawson Walton4
Fiction Writer
Great article it is everything
Maria Fiore Pilon7
Water The Source Of Life
You really said the truth. Thank you so much for this message of inspiration and hope to succeed.
H.M. Tahir Khan7
Internet Marketing Consultant
Amazing & Awesome Article, I Like it. Nothing can change YOU except YOUR Attitude!
Only then, YOU can make a Difference!
TUHIN PAUL6
Education
An article worth reading
Laura Newton9
The Water Filter Lady
You've said a mouthful. very nice article. :)
Dick Van Kouwen6
Affiliate Marketeer
so true nothing will happen without it
Buy Great Products12
Affiliate Marketer
Great article.
Robert J.15
Marketer, Empowerment Practitioner
Another consideration as it relates to doing and trying is whether you are proceeding from the correct perspective. No matter how hard you try or do if it is not from the correct perspective you will ultimately be frustrated and fail. A paradigm shift would be necessary in that case to proceed forward.
Angel R.16
Perpetual Student & Digital Nomad
We are, what We Think!
Generaly speaking there are three kind of people with a distinguish aproach of life:
There are the TV watcher-all time seasons, never don,t know when is sun set or the morning time.
These Vegetables human Been are in their world , don`t lose time and energy with them.
The second kind of people are the Negativists, for them is a drama to take action and Nothing is gone have success, nothing is working.
Do not Spent your Time And Energy with them, they capture your en
Chiks Miller4
Web Marketing
Nice article.Attitude builds everything in us.
Joe Griffith8
Profesionsl marketer
Great article and very true, Attitude is everything
Chidi E.5
Writer, Blogger
Thanks Luqman.
Luqman Sulyman7
web Designer, Resarcher, I.T Consultant.
great article...keep it up.
Chidi E.5
Writer, Blogger
True words Otoabasi, they achieve little who find it very difficult leaving their comfort zone,
Otoabasi Umonting7
Marketing Consultant & Coach
Good one Chidi. Attitude in anything we do determines how far we will progress in it. They say life's a risk, but not many are willing to take that risk; they would rather stay in their "comfort zones". People who get up and do stuff without fear are often the ones who come out victorious.
stacy m.5
Business Owner
very nice article...