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I asked a question on Weibo a while ago, is the person you liked when you were seventeen still looks good now?
Many people left messages, no, no, I don’t like it. Why? Maybe it’s only now that I discovered that he is not motivated, other people are very small and upset, he is naive, and there are so many shortcomings.
But life is really hard to describe in a word. When you were seventeen, you thought he was good.
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Let me first talk about the people I liked when I was seventeen.
He is a very serious person. He likes to write his daily experiences as small essays. When he was in high school, he would take the initiative to read a lot of famous books and write long afterthoughts.
His writing was not very good, he was very tender, and he used too much punch, and my writing at that time had begun to be more sophisticated than his peers, so he occasionally acted like a baby, hey, teach me to write articles.
When you hear it, you will know that it is empty talk that cannot be implemented. But just such a light and fluttering sentence, I was also fascinated by it, and my heart blossomed. He hurriedly said yes, as if he really wanted to see me.
I have known him for more than a year and have never been together.
He knows how to deal with it very well, knows how to send you as a good friend in a timely manner and let your whole heart surround him. But I won’t let you move closer.
As for me, I humbled everything that a seventeen-year-old girl could think of.
Sending milk tea, books, review materials, all kinds of fake phone calls to ask questions, in fact, just want to hear the soft voice of him just waking up.
At that time, I was very exaggerated. I even went to study the chat skills, hoping to make him think, hey, you girl is different from what I have talked with before.
But it's useless, it's useless, and the final identity is still the gleaming word "friend".
I hate it in my heart, but hate it again...that's it.
He dangled a shot dashingly, nothing more than a dash, but I was overplayed and crashed to the ground.
So now I see a lot of female readers C believe me, because I like someone, I start to change myself, I start to feel ashamed, I start to be unable to get out, I really want to shake their shoulders and say, you are so stupid, true Yes, but I understand you.
Who is not falling apart and being slapped by reality, knowing that everything must be slapped, and then knowing that life is sea, don't trust too much, don't be too naive, don't try hard.
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My friend, S, liked grade grass when he was seventeen. S is also a heartthrob himself, so she fell in love with classmate Cao soon, and the love was vigorous.
Later, she quarreled with classmate Grade Cao, because boys, it is inevitable that they have physical needs, but girls feel that it is too early to say that they dare not.
S couldn't learn at all during that time, and his eyes were always red. He probably really struggled with this matter.
Life is very paradoxical. Later, S almost decided to agree to the agreement, but suddenly found that classmate Grade Cao had derailed, so the love affair that occupied our gossip headlines three months after class fell out immediately.
When we talked about this again, when we were sophomore, she said, I'm so glad he cheated at that time, otherwise I don't know how worthless, I have to regret it.
I asked, do you hate him now?
S thought about it for a while and said, um... the character of others is not ok, but I think, let me be seventeen years old again, I will still like him, so sunny and handsome.
She and I sighed that seventeen was a dangerous age. It was too easy to hit a rock with a pebbles. I mistakenly thought that the sky is big and I dare to make any mistakes.
But seventeen is also a good age, and will love someone to their bones for the slightest sparkle. There will not be too much consideration and evaluation, but purely, to give.
Who is not stupid when you are young, who has never done something "not worth it", who knows the concept of cost performance from the beginning. What to pay attention to calculating the pros and cons, pay attention to eating decently, these are all later.
I don't miss the person I liked when I was seventeen, but I will miss myself at that time. There is loneliness, it is very simple, and there are a lot of sincerity for splurge.
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I wrote a paragraph.
The interpersonal relationship is full of lessons learned.
Now you are prepared to retreat steadily, but you have also been in danger for a bet that you didn't cash in. Later, no matter how calm and calm you are, you know in your heart, I'm sorry, your sincerity has been exhausted.
But every invulnerable person has been slaughtered by the king.
me too.
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James Bauer is a prominent relationship coach and a self-described student of human psychology. Through a combination of his work and personal life experiences, James came to discover that men and women have inherently different needs in their romantic relationships. He has been providing consultations to couples with issues for many years. He is the one who came up with the “Respect Principle” which is the important “secret weapon” for connecting with your man easily and quickly. According to Bauer, in a recent survey, 74% of men said that they’d rather feel unloved than disrespected. Bauer believes respect to be the key principle of his guide, asserting that men are attracted to women who show them respect and admiration.What Men Secretly Want
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