The Universal Signs A Guy Doesn't Like You

The Signs He Doesn't Like You

If you're looking for signs that a guy doesn't like you - you've come to the right place.

That's because I'm here to tell you exactly what a guy does (and doesn't do) when he's not interested.

That way, you never have to feel confused or worried or anxious about a guy's behavior again.

Because here's the truth...

Guys Are Not Complicated

It's actually very easy to tell whether a guy likes you or not.

He's not sending out hidden signals, or being subtle, or giving you secrets and clues about whether he likes you or not.

The truth is, if he likes you, it's going to be obvious. He's not James Bond.

And if he doesn't like you - it will be just as obvious - once you know the signs.

When Guys Like You - They Spend Time With You

There's a very simple rule to remember with guys.

If he likes you - he's going to be around you.

He's going to want to spend time with you. He's going to want to be with you. He's going to want to hang out with you.

If he doesn't do those things - it means he's not that interested.

A guy who's interested is not going to drop hidden signs he likes you.

He's going to want to spend time with you - and be with you.

So what do guys do when they're not interested?

Signs He's Not Interested

There are a few clear signs a guy doesn't like you.

First off - I've already covered this one, but if he doesn't want to spend time with you and isn't interested in making an effort to hang out with you - he's probably not interested.

If he doesn't remember the things you tell him or listen to you when you're talking to him - he's probably not interested. Guys who are interested will pay attention to you when you're telling them something.

If he treats you the same as he treats everyone else, and isn't really curious about your life - he probably doesn't like you. Guys consider women they're interested in as special - and treat them differently than other women.

If he never contacts you first, and habitually doesn't text back, that's a sign that you're not very important to him - and that means he's not interested.

What To Do Next

Now, if you looked at that list, and saw a few things (like 3 or more) that describe the guy you're wondering about - then the bad news is that he's probably not interested.

However, if you want to get him interested in you - the best thing to do is stop worrying about whether he likes you and just to focus on having fun with him instead.

When you focus on having fun with him, something crazy happens - you actually have fun with him! You'll actually enjoy the time you spend together way more, and so will he.

Guys want to do things that feel good to them, and avoid things that feel bad. When you're focused on trying to figure out whether he likes you, it feels bad and uncomfortable to him - like he's walking on eggshells trying not to upset you.

But when you focus on having fun - it feels really good to him. It makes him want to hang out with you more. And over time, it gets him interested in you.

So focus on having the best possible time you can with him, and being in the best mood you can be with him, and everything else will fall into place.