Sensual Tips for Attending a Sensual Party
by John Dugan OwnerLet’s face it, guys tend to be really proud of their members – and
why not? If a guy practices good male organ health, he is likely to have a
member that is well worth wanting to show off. And while showing off for 1
wonderful partner can be delightful, some men prefer a bigger audience. For
such men, a sensual party can be a great opportunity to strut their stuff, view
other people’s stuff, and treat their drive to some delicious sensual activity
with multiple partners. Veterans of a sensual party or two may know what to
expect, but these sensual tips can be helpful to those who may be just ready to
dip their toes into the sensual party scene.
Tips
- Find out if there are rules. Sometimes a
sensual party can just materialize naturally, when a bunch of randy people get
together and decide to shed their inhibitions. But nowadays, a sensual party is
likely to be a bit more planned than that. If one is invited to or otherwise
finds out about a sensual party, it’s a good idea to find out in advance what
the ground rules are. For example, is this a mixed sensual party, or is it all
one gender? Do all kinds of sensual activity go, or is it limited – perhaps
just to solo play, or maybe oral sensual activity is allowed but not
penetrative sensual activity? If there is a kink aspect, what are the group
safe words? And then there are more practical questions to ask, such as whether
creme and towels are provided, whether there is a shower option on the
premises, whether there is a fee for attending, et cetera.
- Consent is still required. No
matter how wild a sensual party may (or may not) get, there still must be
consent between any 2 (or more) participants. Of all these sensual tips, this
may be the most important. It’s not only exercising normal human kindness and
respect, but it also can prevent a man from being brought up on charges.
- A guy’s safety is his own responsibility. Any
kind of sensual party runs the risk of spreading social diseases, including
HIV. It is up to each individual to practice safe sensual activity, and guys
should assume that other participants may not always be truthful (or perhaps
even aware of) their sensual health status. Using latex protection is strongly
encouraged, as is taking other safe sensual activity steps. And remember,
change latex protection when changing partners, to avoid spreading possible
germs or infection.
- Know how to say no. A participant at a sensual
party should set his own boundaries – and then stick to them. However, he
should also be aware that there are proper and improper ways to say no to an
advance. Usually, a simply head shake and a gentle “No thanks” will suffice.
There shouldn’t be a need to be insulting when turning down a request. And if
someone asks what a guy is into, he should be straightforward and clear about
what he will and will not do.
- Take a break if needed. Not
surprisingly, a person can go into stimulation overdrive at a sensual party. If
that happens, simply take a break until ready to rejoin the fun.
- Know how you feel about partner involvement. Some
guys think it will be hot to see their partner being intimate with others. They
should be sure about this before involving them in a group sensual situation.
No list of sensual tips, whether for a sensual party or not, would
be complete without reminding men to daily apply a first-class male organ
health oil (health professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil, which is clinically
proven mild and safe for skin) to their member. Be sure that the
chosen oil contains L-arginine, which helps the body produce nitric oxide and
thereby helps male organ blood vessels open more readily. The oil should also
contain vitamin C, which is a key component of collagen, a tissue in the body
that gives skin its tone and elasticity.
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