Procrasturbation: Self-Pleasuring as a Delay Tactic
by John Dugan OwnerWhether it’s a once-in-a-while thing or a part of his daily
activities, self-pleasuring is something that almost all guys enjoy (whether
they freely admit it or not). It has survived centuries of badmouthing and
sometimes-hysterical denunciations for the simply reason that it feels good,
produces positive results, is good for male organ health, and, in most cases,
is harmless. Of course, like every activity, there can be times when its use
can turn to misuse, and then there can be a problem. Such is the case when
self-pleasuring turns into procrasturbation.
Procrastur-what?
It’s not in the official dictionary, but procrasturbation is more
and more in use in common language. Although originally the term was developed
to describe a pleasurable feeling that a person gets from putting off doing a
task or job that they really don’t want to do, it has evolved into the much
more specific idea of using self-pleasuring as a way to avoid doing that task
or job.
The phrase comes about, of course, from combining self-pleasuring
with procrastination (the tendency to put off doing an unwanted task or job).
Everyone procrastinates, of course – it’s just for some people it’s a very rare
thing whereas for others it’s a habit.
Psychologically speaking, procrastination makes sense. As an
article in Psychology Today explains, “We are more likely to do things that we
expect to succeed at and we value” and “We typically discount future rewards in
favor of immediate rewards.” So when we view a task disfavorable – thinking
it’s something we might fail at – we have an inclination to avoid it. And since
we are more likely to grab at something that immediately rewards us rather than
that which rewards us in the future, this heightens our willingness to
procrastinate.
And it’s that sense of immediate reward that makes
procrasturbation so attractive. Not only does a guy get to put off working on
that long, boring report, but he gets to experience the intense pleasure of
self-pleasuring as well – seemingly a win-win situation.
Not always
And in fact, on occasion, procrasturbation can indeed by a win-win
situation. Stop working on a project that is giving a man grief and spending
time self-stimulating his member can in some instances actually help in at
least two ways. (1) Sometimes taking a break and steeping back away from a
touch job can enable a person to return to it with a fresh eye and perspective,
and (2) the chemicals released during self-pleasuring can relax a man so that
he feels more refreshed when returning to the problem and also more focused.
However, often procrasturbation just adds to the problems created
by regular procrastination – avoiding facing an inevitable problem, usually
thereby reducing the amount of time left to work on the problem and creating a
greater sense of tension and anxiety because there is now less time to deal
with the situation.
If a person finds he engages in frequent procrasturbation, he may
wish to consult with a professional. Dealing with procrastination part of
procrastubation is usually the way to ease this situation and can lead to less
stressful ways of working.
Sometimes procrasturbation results in such intense self-pleasuring
that a guy may rub himself rather raw. Using a first rate male organ health
creme (health professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil, which is clinically
proven mild and safe for skin) can come in handy in such cases.
Manhood skin that has been over-self-gratified may be rough and dry, and there
by needs significant moisturization. Select a crème that contains a combination
of moisturizing agents, such as vitamin E and natural shea butter. In addition,
rough handling can lead to de-sensitization of the member. A crème with
L-carnitine, which has neuroprotective properties that help maintain male organ
sensation, is called for in such cases.
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